We all desire to live well—not just for our own sake, but to be a blessing to our families, communities, and, for those who follow Jesus, to honor Him. Over the years, I’ve observed that certain habits consistently lead to lasting fruit—spiritually, emotionally, relationally, and even financially. These habits aren’t flashy or complicated. They’re simple, consistent, and deeply effective. In my experience, these seven habits offer a high return on investment in every area of life.
1. Start Each Day with God
Before the texts, to-dos, and distractions start flying in, take time to center your heart on God. Read Scripture. Pray. Listen. Worship.
I follow a simple Bible reading plan that includes a chapter from the Old Testament, New Testament, Psalms, and Proverbs each day. It anchors my soul. The return? Peace, perspective, and a sense of God’s presence that carries into every part of the day.
“Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” – Matthew 6:33
2. Live Generously
Generosity is like sowing seed. Whether it’s your money, time, encouragement, or wisdom—when you give, you grow. Generous people live with open hands and open hearts.
I’ve found that when I freely give, especially when I think I don’t have enough, God supplies. And not just financially. He returns in joy, favor, and strong relationships.
“The world of the generous gets larger and larger; the world of the stingy gets smaller and smaller.” – Proverbs 11:24 (MSG)
3. Practice Gratitude Daily
Gratitude changes everything. It shifts your focus from what’s lacking to what’s already been given. I’ve learned to say “thank you” to God every morning—before asking for anything.
It doesn’t take long to see how richly blessed you are, even in hard seasons. Gratitude builds contentment, fights anxiety, and fosters joy.
4. Keep Growing—Intentionally
Read books. Ask questions. Learn from Youtube. Take courses. Learn from people ahead of you. Whether you’re 17 or 70, growth is never over.
I just headed into my seventh decade but I’m still learning—about music, leadership, mentoring, and the ways of God. When you stop growing, you start declining. But growth multiplies your usefulness and your joy.
5. Guard Your Inner Life
Your character, attitude, and thought life matter more than your achievements. It’s what people don’t see that eventually determines what they do see.
Spend time reflecting. Repent quickly. Forgive freely. Keep your heart soft and humble. Keep your heart pure before God. This habit pays massive dividends in relationships, reputation, and resilience.
“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” – Proverbs 4:23
6. Invest in Relationships
Success without meaningful relationships is hollow. The time you spend listening to your spouse, playing with your kids or grandkids, calling a friend, or mentoring someone younger—that’s time well spent.
Relationships require intention. But the return? Deep joy, lasting memories, and the legacy you leave behind.
7. Take Care of Your Body
You only get one. Exercise regularly. Eat wisely. Rest purposefully. I play pickleball three times a week and walk on my off-days. Staying fit in my seventies allows me to keep doing what I love—worship leading, teaching, traveling, and playing with my grandkids.
You don’t need to be perfect—just consistent. A healthy body supports a fruitful life.
Final Thought
These habits aren’t flashy. But they’re faithful. And that’s what makes them powerful. Over time, they lead to a life that’s fruitful in every season—a life of impact, joy, and purpose.
Which habit speaks to you the most today? Which one could you take a small step toward this week?
Let’s keep living intentionally, with hearts fully alive to God and His purposes.
