The Blessing of Giving: Generous Living

Posted on January 11, 2025 by Mark Cole

Generosity is at the heart of the Christian faith. From the very beginning, God has modeled what it means to give—freely, joyfully, and sacrificially. As His people, we are called to follow His example, not just as a duty but as a privilege. The Bible is rich with teachings about giving and generosity, and these truths remind us of the blessings that flow when we embrace a generous spirit.

God Is the Source of All Blessings

Everything we have comes from God. The Bible says, “The earth is the Lord’s, and everything in it” (Psalm 24:1). When we give, we’re simply returning a portion of what already belongs to Him. This perspective shifts our mindset from ownership to stewardship, reminding us that we are managers of God’s resources.

Generosity Reflects God’s Character

The ultimate example of generosity is found in John 3:16: “For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son…”. God’s love compelled Him to give the most precious gift of all—His Son, Jesus. When we give, we mirror His generosity and demonstrate His love to the world around us.

Giving Should Be Joyful and Willing

Paul reminds us in 2 Corinthians 9:7, “Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.” Generosity is not about obligation but about joy. It’s an act of worship that flows from a grateful heart.

Generosity Brings Blessings

Generosity doesn’t leave us empty; it enriches us. Proverbs 11:24-25 says, “One person gives freely, yet gains even more; another withholds unduly, but comes to poverty. A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.” God’s economy operates on principles of abundance, not scarcity. When we refresh others, we find ourselves refreshed in return.

Prioritize God’s Kingdom

Jesus taught us to focus on eternal treasures rather than earthly possessions: “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth… But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven” (Matthew 6:19-21). True wealth is found in investing in God’s kingdom, where our treasures can never be lost.

Give to Those in Need

Generosity isn’t limited to financial giving; it includes meeting the needs of others. Proverbs 19:17 says, “Whoever is kind to the poor lends to the Lord, and He will reward them for what they have done.” James echoes this sentiment: “Faith without works is dead” (James 2:15-16). Helping those in need is a tangible expression of our faith and love.

Generosity Demonstrates Faith

The Macedonian churches are a beautiful example of generosity in the face of hardship. Despite severe trials and extreme poverty, they gave with overflowing joy (2 Corinthians 8:1-5). Generosity is an act of faith, trusting God to provide even when we feel stretched.

The Heart of Giving Matters

Generosity is meaningless without love. 1 Corinthians 13:3 says, “If I give all I possess to the poor… but do not have love, I gain nothing.” God cares about the condition of our hearts as much as the act of giving itself. When we give out of love, our generosity becomes a powerful witness.

Eternal Rewards for Generosity

Jesus promises that generosity will be rewarded: “Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap” (Luke 6:38). These rewards aren’t just material; they’re spiritual and eternal, reflecting God’s faithfulness to bless those who trust Him.

Practical Ways to Embrace Generosity

  1. Give Regularly: Set aside a portion of your income for God’s work.
  2. Support the Needy: Look for opportunities to help the poor and vulnerable.
  3. Be Hospitable: Share your home, time, and resources with others.
  4. Invest in Missions: Contribute to spreading the Gospel locally and globally.
  5. Serve Joyfully: Use your talents to bless your church and community.

Generosity is not just about finances; it’s about offering our time, talents, and resources to bless others and glorify God. When we give, we experience the joy of reflecting God’s love, the satisfaction of making a difference, and the assurance that our treasure is secure in heaven. The blessing of giving is not only in what we give but in the transformation it brings to our hearts and lives.

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Peace In The Storm

Posted on January 11, 2025 by Mark Cole

Have you ever been in the middle of a storm? I remember, as a kid, going fishing with my dad. We were out in a small boat, in a large inlet off the coast of British Columbia, when a storm blew in. I got soaked by the waves crashing over the front of the boat as my dad revved up the little engine and started heading for shore. But I had total confidence in my dad, so I curled up in the bow of the boat and promptly went to sleep.

Storms can be quite powerful. Storms often come in suddenly. Some storms are very unexpected.

I love the story of Jesus calming the storm. (Matt 8:23-27 NLT)

Then Jesus got into the boat and started across the lake with His disciples. Suddenly, a fierce storm struck the lake, with waves breaking into the boat. But Jesus was sleeping. The disciples went and woke Him up, shouting, “Lord, save us! We’re going to drown!”

Jesus responded, “Why are you afraid? You have so little faith!” Then He got up and rebuked the wind and waves, and suddenly there was a great calm.

The disciples were amazed. “Who is this man?” they asked. “Even the winds and waves obey Him!”

Jesus was not afraid in the storm! He had total trust and faith in His Father! And more than that, He had authority over the storm. He spoke words of faith and the storm had to obey! I love that!

Question: What storms have you been through? What have they taught you? Are you trusting your Heavenly Father in the storm?

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Why Worship Leaders Should Prioritize Daily Bible Reading

Posted on January 9, 2025 by Mark Cole

As worship leaders, we carry the incredible responsibility of guiding others into the presence of God. We lead songs that declare His truth, invite His Spirit, and proclaim His goodness. But if we’re not regularly filling ourselves with God’s Word, our ministry can quickly become shallow, our hearts distracted, and our leadership misaligned with His purpose.

Daily Bible reading isn’t just a “spiritual discipline” for the sake of being disciplined—it’s a lifeline that equips us for the high calling of leading worship. Here’s why prioritizing daily time in God’s Word is vital for worship leaders:

1. The Word Grounds Us in Truth

Worship isn’t about emotional experiences or catchy melodies; it’s about exalting the truth of who God is. Daily Bible reading ensures we’re continually reminded of His unchanging character, His promises, and His commands. When we’re grounded in truth, we’re better equipped to discern which songs, themes, and messages align with Scripture. This makes our worship leadership biblically sound and spiritually impactful.

“Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God” (Colossians 3:16).

2. It Keeps Our Hearts in Tune

Ministry can be demanding, and it’s easy to become preoccupied with logistics, performance, or even personal ambition. Daily time in the Bible helps recalibrate our hearts, reminding us that worship isn’t about us but about Him. It keeps us humble, thankful, and sensitive to the Spirit’s leading.

3. Scripture Fuels Our Songs

The most powerful worship songs are steeped in Scripture. By immersing ourselves in the Word, we gain inspiration and language for our worship. Whether we’re choosing songs for a Sunday setlist or writing original music, the Bible provides an endless well of truth to declare through song.

4. It Prepares Us Spiritually

A worship leader’s role isn’t just musical; it’s pastoral. We intercede for our congregations and create spaces where people encounter God. To do this effectively, we must be spiritually prepared. Daily Bible reading strengthens our walk with God, fills us with His Spirit, and gives us the wisdom and courage to lead others well.

5. It Shapes Our Leadership

Worship leaders are influencers in their churches. Our example speaks volumes to our teams and congregations. When we’re consistently in God’s Word, we model a lifestyle of dependence on Him. This commitment to Scripture becomes a testimony of our devotion to Christ and an encouragement to those we lead.

Practical Tips for Daily Bible Reading:

  • Set a Time: Make Bible reading a non-negotiable part of your day. For many, mornings work best, but choose what’s sustainable for you.
  • Follow a Plan: Use a Bible reading plan to stay consistent and avoid the “what should I read today?” dilemma. Here’s my favorite Bible Reading Plans.
  • Journal Your Insights: Write down what God reveals to you through His Word. This can deepen your understanding and give you a record of His faithfulness.
  • Pray Through Scripture: Let your reading fuel your prayers. For example, if you’re reading Psalm 23, pray through its truths for yourself and your team.
  • Share What You Learn: Bring Scripture into your rehearsals or pre-service prayers. This not only enriches your team’s spiritual lives but also reinforces your commitment to the Word.

A Personal Testimony

When I began prioritizing daily Bible reading, everything changed. My heart and actions started to align with God, sins fell away, my leadership became more Christ-like and my worship more genuine. Reading through the Psalms reminded me of the depth of God’s love. Reading through the Proverbs daily helped me in my relationships and decisions. The Gospels revealed afresh the beauty of Jesus. Paul’s letters challenged me to lead with integrity. The Word became the anchor of my life and ministry.

Final Thoughts

If you’re a worship leader who desires to serve God faithfully, daily Bible reading is non-negotiable. It’s the fuel for your ministry, the guardrail for your leadership, and the foundation for your walk with Christ. Make it a priority, and watch as God deepens your relationship with Him and transforms your worship leadership for His honor and glory.

What about you? How has daily Bible reading shaped your life as a worship leader? Share your thoughts and experiences below!

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Navigating “Do Not Judge” as Worship Leaders

Posted on January 9, 2025 by Mark Cole

Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 7:1-2 are often quoted verses in Scripture: “Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. For you will be treated as you treat others. The standard you use in judging is the standard by which you will be judged.” But what does this mean for worship leaders? As leaders, we’re often tasked with making decisions about who should be on the team, how well they play, and how they contribute to the ministry. How can we handle these decisions biblically, while honoring Jesus’ command?

Here are some principles to help worship leaders navigate this tension with wisdom and grace.

1. Understand the Context of “Do Not Judge”

In Matthew 7:1-5, Jesus was addressing a judgmental and hypocritical spirit. He wasn’t condemning all forms of discernment or evaluation; rather, He was challenging a self-righteous attitude that condemns others without self-reflection. Just a few verses later, Jesus instructs us to recognize people by their fruits (Matthew 7:15-20), which requires discernment.

What This Means for Worship Leaders: Approach every decision with humility, examining your own heart before evaluating someone else. Are you making decisions with a spirit of love or self-righteousness? Are you open to feedback about your leadership?

2. Speak the Truth in Love

Ephesians 4:15 encourages us to “speak the truth in love.” Our goal as worship leaders is not to tear someone down but to build them up in their walk with Christ.

Application: When making decisions about a team member’s role, ask yourself: Will my words and actions encourage them to grow spiritually and musically, even if they aren’t ready to be on the team right now?

3. Recognize Different Gifts and Callings

1 Corinthians 12 reminds us that God has given different gifts to each member of the body of Christ. Not everyone is called to be on the worship team, and that’s okay. Some may have musical talent that needs refinement, while others may be called to serve in different areas.

Application: Affirm each person’s value and help them find a role where they can thrive and serve effectively, even if it’s not on the worship team. Recognize that their worth isn’t tied to their position but to their identity in Christ.

4. Have Clear and Objective Standards

Paul outlined specific qualifications for leaders in 1 Timothy 3. Similarly, having clear expectations for team members helps ensure fairness and removes subjectivity.

Application:

  • Set measurable standards for musical skill, spiritual maturity, and teamwork.
  • Be transparent about these standards and the process for joining the team.
  • Offer pathways for growth, such as mentorship or training, for those who aren’t yet ready.

5. Be Spiritually Disciplined in Decision-Making

James 1:5 tells us to ask for wisdom from God, who gives generously. Prayer and accountability are essential when making decisions about your team.

Application:

  • Pray for wisdom before making decisions.
  • Seek counsel from a co-leader, pastor, or mentor to ensure your decisions align with God’s will and the ministry’s mission.
  • Make decisions with the long-term growth of the team and the individual in mind.

6. Provide Feedback with Grace

Colossians 4:6 says, “Let your conversation be gracious and attractive so that you will have the right response for everyone.” When someone isn’t ready to join the team or needs to step aside, feedback should be honest but filled with grace.

Application:

  • Instead of saying, “You’re not good enough,” try: “Your heart for worship is evident, and I see God working in you. I think focusing on [specific skill] would help you grow. I’m here to support you in that journey.”
  • Offer specific next steps, such as private lessons, practice recommendations, or participation in a smaller worship setting.

7. Trust God to Work in Everyone’s Life

Your role as a worship leader is to steward the team well, but God is ultimately in control of each person’s growth and ministry path. Trust Him to guide those who may not currently fit the team.

Application: Pray for the people you’re evaluating. Ask God to bless their journey and reveal their place in the body of Christ. Sometimes a “no” today is God’s way of preparing them for a better “yes” in the future.

Final Thoughts

As worship leaders, we’re called to balance discernment with compassion. Our decisions should reflect God’s love and our desire to build His kingdom. By relying on prayer, humility, and grace, we can navigate these challenges in a way that honors Jesus’ teaching and strengthens our teams.

Remember: It’s not about judgment in a condemning sense, but about stewarding the ministry with wisdom and love. Let’s aim to build teams that glorify God and encourage every member to grow in their faith and calling.

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Lessons From Job’s Suffering

Posted on January 9, 2025 by Mark Cole

The story of Job is one of the most profound accounts of faith, suffering, and God’s sovereignty in Scripture. Job’s steadfastness amid unthinkable trials offers timeless lessons that are both challenging and inspiring. Let’s explore seven key takeaways from his suffering and how they apply to our lives.

1. Faith Amid Suffering

When Job declared, “Should we accept only good things from the hand of God and never anything bad?” (Job 2:10), he demonstrated a remarkable trust in God’s sovereignty. This teaches us that faith is not the absence of pain but the presence of trust—a trust that persists even when we don’t understand our circumstances.

Faith amid suffering reminds us that God’s goodness isn’t negated by our hardships. We are called to rely on Him, knowing He works all things together for His purposes (Romans 8:28).

2. Integrity and Perseverance

Despite immense pressure, including his wife’s urging to “curse God and die” (Job 2:9), Job held on to his integrity. He refused to turn his back on God, even when his world fell apart.

This teaches us that true faith perseveres. Trials are not a sign of God’s abandonment but an opportunity to remain steadfast, showing the depth and sincerity of our trust in Him.

3. God’s Sovereignty and Perspective

Job’s acknowledgment that both blessings and trials come from the same God challenges us to trust in His sovereignty. Our limited perspective often tempts us to question God’s fairness, but Job’s response points to a profound truth: God’s ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9).

Recognizing God’s sovereignty helps us surrender our need for control and trust that He is weaving a greater story—one that we may not fully comprehend this side of eternity.

4. The Role of Community in Suffering

Job’s wife and friends responded poorly to his suffering. His wife’s words were discouraging, and his friends later compounded his pain with misguided accusations.

This reminds us of the importance of community during trials. As friends and loved ones, we must offer support with kindness, empathy, and wisdom. Harsh or judgmental words can deepen the wounds of those already suffering.

5. The Value of Humility

Job’s acceptance of both good and bad from God reflects a heart of humility. It’s easy to feel entitled to blessings while resisting trials, but Job’s story challenges us to approach life with humility and trust in God’s purposes.

Humility helps us to see suffering not as a punishment but as a refining process. It allows us to grow closer to God and develop character through our trials (James 1:2-4).

6. Suffering is Not Always a Result of Sin

One of the most profound lessons from Job’s story is that suffering is not always a result of personal sin. Job’s trials were not punishment but were allowed by God for a greater purpose.

This challenges the notion that hardship is always a consequence of wrongdoing. It reminds us to trust God’s purposes, even when we cannot see the reasons behind our pain.

7. God is Worthy of Worship No Matter What

Through it all, Job maintained his worship of God. His faith was not conditional on his circumstances, and he recognized that God’s worthiness transcends human understanding.

This challenges us to examine our own faith: Do we worship God only when life is good, or do we trust and praise Him even in the storms?

Reflection and Application

  • How do we respond to suffering in our lives? Like Job, can we trust God even when things seem unfair or incomprehensible?
  • Are we careful with our words when others are suffering, offering encouragement instead of criticism?

Job’s story ultimately points us to God’s faithfulness. It reminds us that suffering, though painful, can refine our faith and deepen our relationship with Him. Let Job’s example inspire us to remain steadfast, trusting that God’s plans for us are good—even when we can’t see the whole picture.

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When Will Jesus Return?

Posted on January 8, 2025 by Mark Cole

The second coming of Jesus is one of the most anticipated events in Christian faith. Many wonder about the timing and details of His return. While Jesus did not give a specific date, He shared significant insights that help us understand what to expect. Let’s explore what Jesus said about His return and what it means for us today.

It Will Be Sudden and Visible

Jesus made it clear that His return will be unmistakable.

“For as the lightning comes from the east and flashes to the west, so also will the coming of the Son of Man be.” (Matthew 24:27)

His second coming won’t be hidden or secret. Just as lightning illuminates the sky, everyone will see His glorious return.

It Will Be Glorious and Accompanied by Angels

Jesus described the majesty of His return:

“Then the sign of the Son of Man will appear in heaven, and then all the tribes of the earth will mourn, and they will see the Son of Man coming on the clouds of heaven with power and great glory. And He will send His angels with a great sound of a trumpet, and they will gather together His elect from the four winds.” (Matthew 24:30-31)

This event will be a powerful and awe-inspiring moment as Jesus gathers His followers to Himself.

The Timing Is Unknown

One of the most emphasized points about Jesus’ return is that no one knows when it will happen.

“But of that day and hour no one knows, not even the angels of heaven, but My Father only.” (Matthew 24:36)

Attempts to predict the exact timing are futile. Jesus’ words remind us to trust God’s timing and focus on being prepared.

It Will Be Like the Days of Noah

Jesus compared the days leading up to His return to the time of Noah:

“For as in the days before the flood, they were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, until the day that Noah entered the ark, and did not know until the flood came and took them all away, so also will the coming of the Son of Man be.” (Matthew 24:38-39)

Life will seem ordinary, and many will be unprepared for the suddenness of His return.

It Calls for Watchfulness and Readiness

Since the timing is unknown, Jesus urged His followers to stay vigilant:

“Watch therefore, for you do not know what hour your Lord is coming.” (Matthew 24:42)

“Therefore you also be ready, for the Son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect.” (Matthew 24:44)

Being ready means living in a way that honors God, staying faithful, and maintaining a vibrant relationship with Him.

He Will Judge the World

The return of Jesus will usher in a time of judgment:

“When the Son of Man comes in His glory, and all the holy angels with Him, then He will sit on the throne of His glory. All the nations will be gathered before Him, and He will separate them one from another, as a shepherd divides his sheep from the goats.” (Matthew 25:31-32)

This will be a moment of accountability as Jesus rewards the faithful and judges those who have rejected Him.

It Will Fulfill Promises of Redemption

Jesus’ return is a promise of hope for His followers:

“In My Father’s house are many mansions; if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to Myself; that where I am, there you may be also.” (John 14:2-3)

He assures us that He is coming back to bring His people into eternal fellowship with Him.

It Will Be a Time of Final Restoration

Jesus’ return will complete God’s plan for humanity and creation:

“Then they will see the Son of Man coming in the clouds with great power and glory. And then He will send His angels and gather His elect from the four winds.” (Mark 13:26-27)

His return will mark the culmination of history and the restoration of all things.

Living in Anticipation

While the exact timing of Jesus’ return remains a mystery, His words call us to a life of readiness. We are encouraged to:

  • Stay faithful in our walk with God.
  • Be diligent in sharing the Gospel.
  • Live with an eternal perspective, knowing that Jesus could return at any moment.

Instead of speculating about when He will come, let’s focus on being prepared for that incredible day. His promise stands firm: He will come again. Are you ready?

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Lessons from Abraham’s Test of Faith

Posted on January 8, 2025 by Mark Cole

The story of Abraham’s test in Genesis 22 is one of the most profound and challenging passages in Scripture. God commands Abraham to sacrifice his promised son, Isaac, on Mount Moriah. This test was not only a trial of Abraham’s obedience but also a revelation of God’s ultimate provision and the depth of trust required in our walk with Him. Let’s explore some lessons we can draw from this powerful narrative.

1. Faith Requires Obedience, Even When We Don’t Understand

Abraham’s immediate response to God’s call demonstrates a trust that surpasses human reasoning. Without questioning, he sets out early the next morning to do what God commanded (Genesis 22:3). Abraham did not understand why God would ask him to sacrifice the son through whom the promises were to be fulfilled. Yet, his obedience teaches us that faith often involves trusting God’s plans, even when they seem incomprehensible.

Application: When God calls us to take a step of faith that seems unreasonable or difficult, we can rest in the assurance that His plans are good (Romans 8:28).

2. God Often Tests Our Greatest Treasures

For Abraham, Isaac represented God’s fulfilled promise—his future, legacy, and hope. By asking Abraham to offer Isaac, God was testing whether Abraham’s trust was in the promise itself or in the God who gave it.

Application: What are the “Isaacs” in our lives? Are there blessings we cherish so much that they risk becoming idols? God’s tests often reveal what we value most and whether we’re willing to surrender it to Him.

3. Faith is Proactive, Not Passive

Abraham’s faith wasn’t just intellectual assent; it was demonstrated through action. He gathered wood, traveled three days, and prepared the altar (Genesis 22:3-9). Each step reflected a heart committed to following God.

Application: Genuine faith requires action. James 2:17 reminds us that faith without works is dead. What steps of faith is God calling us to take today?

4. God Provides in His Perfect Timing

Just as Abraham raised the knife, God intervened and provided a ram in Isaac’s place (Genesis 22:13). This moment not only spared Isaac but also foreshadowed God’s ultimate provision of Jesus as the sacrificial Lamb for humanity.

Application: When we face trials, we can trust that God sees our needs and will provide in His perfect timing. Jehovah Jireh—“The Lord Will Provide”—is a name that reminds us of God’s faithfulness.

5. Tests Strengthen and Refine Our Faith

Through this test, Abraham’s faith was strengthened, and God’s promise was reaffirmed: “Through your offspring all nations on earth will be blessed” (Genesis 22:18). Tests are not meant to destroy us but to refine our character and deepen our trust in God.

Application: When we endure trials, we can embrace them as opportunities for growth. As James 1:2-4 says, “Consider it pure joy… whenever you face trials… because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.”

6. Surrender Brings Blessing

Abraham’s willingness to surrender Isaac led to an extraordinary blessing and reaffirmation of God’s covenant. God’s promises are often realized on the other side of complete surrender.

Application: What is God asking us to surrender today? When we release control and trust Him fully, we open ourselves to His greater plans and blessings.

Final Thoughts

The story of Abraham and Isaac is ultimately about trust, obedience, and God’s faithfulness. It points us to the cross, where God did not spare His own Son but gave Him up for us all (Romans 8:32). Just as Abraham trusted God’s provision, we too can trust Him in every test and trial we face. The question is, will we respond as Abraham did: “Here I am”?

May we, like Abraham, grow in faith that is willing to surrender all to the God who provides and fulfills His promises.

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Heeding Solomon’s Warnings About Adultery

Posted on January 7, 2025 by Mark Cole

The Book of Proverbs, penned largely by King Solomon, is a treasure trove of wisdom designed to guide us through life. Among its many themes, Solomon devotes significant attention to warnings about adultery and the seductive woman. These passages, particularly found in Proverbs 2, 5, 6, and 7, serve as both a stark warning and a call to live a life of integrity. But why does Solomon emphasize this subject so much, and why should we heed his counsel today? Let’s explore the timeless importance of these warnings.

1. Adultery Destroys Lives

Solomon doesn’t mince words when describing the consequences of adultery. He paints vivid pictures of its outcomes: regret, dishonor, financial ruin, and even death (Proverbs 5:3-5; 6:27-29). The immediate pleasure of infidelity is contrasted sharply with its long-term devastation.

Consider these words:

“For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil; but in the end, she is bitter as gall, sharp as a double-edged sword” (Proverbs 5:3-4).

Adultery doesn’t just harm the individuals involved. It breaks families, damages trust, and leaves deep scars on children and communities. Solomon’s warnings urge us to think beyond fleeting moments of temptation and consider the devastating ripple effects.

2. The Spiritual Cost

Adultery isn’t merely a physical act; it’s a spiritual betrayal. Solomon links infidelity to straying from God’s path. In Proverbs 2:16-19, he writes that the adulterous woman leads her victims to death, cutting them off from life.

Infidelity is ultimately a failure to honor God’s design for marriage and purity. Marriage is a covenant, not just between spouses but also before God. Violating that covenant reflects a heart that has wandered from Him. Solomon’s wisdom calls us back to a life aligned with God’s holiness.

3. Guarding Against Temptation

One of the great values of Proverbs is its practicality. Solomon doesn’t just warn against adultery; he provides tools to resist it:

  • Be Vigilant: “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it” (Proverbs 4:23). Temptation often begins with small compromises. Guarding our hearts requires daily vigilance over our thoughts and desires.
  • Avoid Dangerous Situations: Proverbs 5:8 advises, “Keep to a path far from her, do not go near the door of her house.” Wise living includes setting boundaries to avoid situations that could lead to compromise.
  • Find Satisfaction in Your Marriage: Solomon encourages rejoicing in the spouse of your youth, celebrating the beauty and blessing of marital intimacy (Proverbs 5:18-19). A healthy marriage is one of the strongest defenses against infidelity.

4. Adultery as a Symbol of Folly

In Proverbs, the seductive woman often represents folly, while Lady Wisdom represents righteousness and life. Adultery, then, is not just a sin but a metaphor for rejecting wisdom itself. To choose adultery is to choose foolishness, destruction, and separation from God’s blessing.

Conversely, embracing wisdom—and the discipline it requires—leads to a life of peace, prosperity, and favor with God (Proverbs 8:35-36).

5. A Timely Warning for Today

In a culture that often glorifies instant gratification and downplays the consequences of infidelity, Solomon’s words are more relevant than ever. Adultery is not a “private matter” or a harmless fling; it is a destructive force that undermines individuals, families, and society as a whole.

For believers, heeding Solomon’s warnings is an act of obedience and wisdom. It’s a commitment to honor God, protect our relationships, and live lives of integrity.

Practical Steps to Heed These Warnings

  1. Cultivate a Deep Relationship with God: Regular prayer, Bible reading, and worship strengthen your resolve to live a holy life.
  2. Invest in Your Marriage: Prioritize communication, intimacy, and shared goals with your spouse.
  3. Stay Accountable: Surround yourself with trusted friends or mentors who will hold you accountable.
  4. Avoid Compromise: Don’t entertain flirtations, inappropriate relationships, or media that glorify infidelity.
  5. Remember the Consequences: Reflect on Solomon’s warnings and think long-term. The temporary pleasure of sin is never worth the lasting damage.

Final Thoughts

Solomon’s warnings about adultery in Proverbs are a gift to us. They remind us of the high stakes of our choices and the beauty of living in wisdom and righteousness. By heeding his counsel, we protect our relationships, honor God, and walk the path of life and blessing.

May we all have the courage and wisdom to guard our hearts and remain faithful—to God, to our spouses, and to the principles of wisdom He has given us.

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Leading from Your Life Message

Posted on January 6, 2025 by Mark Cole

One of the most influential verses in my life has been Proverbs 3:5-6:

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.”

This timeless truth has been my compass through seasons of uncertainty, ministry challenges, and the great adventures of following God’s call. It has shaped my life message: Trusting God completely and leading others from the overflow of that trust.

Trusting God Beyond Borders

Trusting God has led me on extraordinary journeys—to over 70 countries. Each trip has been a testimony to God’s faithfulness. I’ve witnessed miracles, healings, and the power of the Gospel transforming lives in ways only God could orchestrate. From sharing the Gospel in remote villages to leading worship in packed stadiums, these experiences have deepened my conviction that when we acknowledge Him in all we do, He truly directs our paths.

Your Life Message Speaks Louder Than Words

Whether you are a pastor, a worship leader, a teacher, or a businessperson, your life message is the unique story God has written on your heart. For me, it’s about trusting Him and encouraging others to do the same. People are not just impacted by our words but by the consistency of our lives. When we live out what we preach, our message carries weight and authenticity.

Lessons from the Journey

  1. Trust Often Requires Letting Go Leaning not on my own understanding has meant surrendering my plans for His. There have been moments when the path ahead seemed unclear or even impossible. Yet, God’s direction has always been perfect—even when it didn’t align with my expectations.
  2. Acknowledging Him Means Partnership In all my ways, I’ve learned to invite God into every decision. Whether planning a missions trip, leading a worship service, or mentoring a young leader, acknowledging Him is an active step of faith. It’s saying, “God, I can’t do this without You.”
  3. God’s Paths Are Purposeful Trusting Him has led me to see hundreds of thousands make decisions to follow Jesus. Each story is a reminder that God’s paths lead to eternal impact. Whether through a simple act of obedience or a bold step of faith, His ways are always higher.

Leading from Trust

If Proverbs 3:5-6 resonates with you, I encourage you to let it shape the way you lead. Here are some practical ways to lead from your life message:

  • Be Transparent: Share your own journey of trusting God—the victories and the struggles.
  • Model Faith: Demonstrate what it looks like to trust God in the everyday moments of life and ministry.
  • Encourage Others: Remind those you lead that God’s plans are always better than our own.
  • Pray Boldly: Ask God to direct your paths and the paths of those under your leadership.

A Final Thought

Leading from your life message isn’t about having all the answers or being perfect. It’s about pointing others to the One who does. Trusting in the Lord with all your heart is a lifelong journey, but it’s one that brings incredible joy and purpose. As you trust Him, lean on Him, and acknowledge Him, He will direct not only your paths but the paths of those you are called to lead.

What’s your life message? How is God asking you to trust Him more deeply today?

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Guide to Fasting and Seeking God

Posted on January 6, 2025 by Mark Cole

Fasting is a powerful spiritual discipline that draws us closer to God, aligning our hearts with His will. If you’re planning to dedicate a number of days to fasting and seeking the Lord, this guide provides practical steps to make the most of this sacred time.

1. Prepare Your Heart and Mind

Fasting begins with preparation. Before you start, take time to seek God in prayer and ask Him to prepare your heart for this journey. Reflect on your reasons for fasting, whether it’s for spiritual renewal, guidance, intercession, or drawing closer to Him. Familiarize yourself with scriptures about fasting, such as:

  • Isaiah 58 – True fasting.
  • Matthew 6:16-18 – Jesus’ teaching on fasting.

Approaching fasting with a clear purpose helps focus your mind and spirit.

2. Set Clear Goals

Write down what you’re seeking during these days. Is it direction for a major decision? Greater intimacy with God? Breakthroughs in specific areas? Clarity in your goals will help you stay committed and attuned to God’s voice.

3. Dedicate Time for Prayer and Worship

Fasting isn’t just about abstaining from food—it’s about filling that space with prayer and worship. Schedule extended times of prayer throughout each day, and use a journal to record insights, thoughts, or words you feel God is speaking to you. Worship through singing or playing hymns and songs that stir your heart toward Him.

4. Meditate on Scripture

God’s Word is a lamp to our feet and a light to our path (Psalm 119:105). Use this time to dive deeper into the Bible. Here are some passages to meditate on:

  • Psalm 42 – Longing for God.
  • Hebrews 12 – Running with endurance.
  • John 15 – Abiding in Christ.
  • Isaiah 40:28-31 – Renewing strength in the Lord.

You can also choose a thematic study, such as “Hearing God’s Voice” or “God’s Promises.” Reflect on how these scriptures apply to your life and write down your thoughts.

5. Embrace Silence and Solitude

In our busy lives, silence is rare but invaluable. Set aside time each day to simply sit quietly in God’s presence. Let His peace fill your heart as you listen for His voice. As Psalm 46:10 says, “Be still, and know that I am God.”

To minimize distractions, turn off devices or leave them in another room during these moments.

6. Intercede for Others

Fasting isn’t only about personal growth; it’s also an opportunity to stand in the gap for others. Pray for your family, friends, church, and community. Ask God to move in their lives and bring healing, wisdom, and provision.

7. Reflect on Bearing Fruit

Use this time to reflect on how you can bear fruit in every season of life. Consider areas where God is calling you to grow, serve, or step out in faith.

8. Break the Fast with Gratitude

When your fasting days come to an end, break your fast with a spirit of thanksgiving. Thank God for His presence, insights, and the work He’s done in your heart. Reflect on the breakthroughs or changes you’ve experienced and commit to walking in what you’ve learned.

Closing Thoughts

Fasting and seeking God is a profound way to deepen your relationship with Him. By dedicating time for prayer, scripture, worship, and silence, you open yourself to hearing His voice and aligning with His purposes. Approach these three days with anticipation, knowing that God rewards those who earnestly seek Him (Hebrews 11:6).

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