The Benefits of a Multi-Generational Worship Team

by Sharon Brodin

If you were to take a poll today, what would you say is the age range represented by your worship team?

One Sunday morning I happened to look across the stage from the piano where I was sitting at the members of our worship team. I realized we had five decades represented that morning. The youngest member was in his teens, the oldest in her 50s.

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At that moment I realized how blessed we are to have a multi-generational worship team. I hadn’t thought of it before, but since then it’s been my goal to try to have a good mix of ages on the team for any given meeting (we have four meetings each weekend). Since we have an age span of 16-66, it’s not usually too hard.

I don’t know what your situation is at your church. But if your worship team is more limited in age range —whether by choice or not — I’d like to share with you four benefits for encouraging a wider range…

1. The worship team is multi-generational
One of the most wonderful truths of our faith is the emphasis God places on relationship. Both with Him and with each other. He invented family.

And one of the best things about being part of a biological family is the way the generations learn to relate together — parents with children, husbands with wives, children with children, grandparents with grandchildren.

That transfers over naturally to the Family of God — the Body of Christ. In our communities of faith, it’s a wonderful thing for children to relate to other parents. For teens to relate to other grandparents. For twenty-somethings to relate to fifty-somethings.

It makes for a healthier family when those relationships are encouraged and supported.

Your worship team can be a microcosm of what the church should look like. Teens and grandparents worshiping together. The younger generation and older generation serving side-by-side. It’s healthier for everyone.

It’s a chance for every age to build friendships with those of other ages with something in common — their calling for music and worship.

2.  You give mentoring opportunities to your older team members
Whether it’s musical knowledge, life experience or spiritual wisdom, your older team members have so much to give. And they want to pass on what they know, what they’ve experienced and what they’ve learned along the way.

I know that because I’m an older team member! (I just celebrated my 50th birthday recently) I love working with our younger musicians, singers and worship leaders — not just musically but in life.

And as the administrator of our 30-member team, I appreciate the skill, the wisdom and the maturity of our older and most experienced members. Some of us have been serving on worship teams since long before our younger members were born.

3. Your younger folks bring energy, enthusiasm and new ideas
Have you ever been guilty of saying, “We’ve always done it this way. That’s just the way the song goes.” I have…often!

Chances are your younger team members haven’t heard the Integrity version of Ancient of Days and don’t know He is Exalted the “right” way.

But they also didn’t grow up hearing I Exalt Thee every week for 5 years, and so can get excited about putting a fresh spin on an oldie-but-goodie.

And just because they’re young don’t assume they won’t have anything to do with the oldies…even hymns. Our two youngest worship leaders (both early 20s) regularly pull out hymns and songs from the 80s when they lead.

It’s good for us older members to have our musical assumptions questioned once in awhile. It’s good for us to be around the energy, enthusiasm and idealism of the teens and young adults.

4. It’s good for those in the congregation to see their own generations represented up on stage
Like I said before, our worship teams can be a microcosm of what the Body of Christ should look like.

If all the older folks see on stage are the young whipper-snappers they may tune out and assume this isn’t for them. (Yes, I know worship isn’t about our musical preferences, but …)

And if all the younger folks only see the old fogies up there, they’ll be even more likely to tune out and assume they can’t relate (since most don’t have the maturity yet to engage anyway).

But even assuming we’re all more mature than that, and truly want to worship in spirit, truth and unity…having worship team members of all ages working together is a beautiful picture of how the Lord created family and how it’s designed to function.

The amazing scene in Revelation of all the tribes and tongues worshiping together before the Throne is our pattern for multi-cultural worship. We want that here on earth, too.

Multi-generational worship is another piece of the same puzzle. It’s about coming together in unity, for one purpose — to honor the King.

Well, I’m off for another multi-generational worship set — there are three of us on the team tonight. One is 20, one is 35 and the other is 50 (that would be me). It’s gonna be a good night!

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Sharon Brodin is the Worship Administrator at Way of the Lord Church in Blaine, Minnesota. Her husband and two of their three children also serve in worship there, making them a genuine multi-generational worshiping family! In addition, Sharon also teaches private piano lessons and works as a freelance copywriter.

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Make A Joyful Noise to the Lord and Praise Him!

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Psalm 100

Make a joyful noise to the Lord all the earth.
Worship the Lord with gladness;
Come before Him with joyful songs.
Know that the Lord is God.
It is He who made us, and we are His;
We are His people, the sheep of His pasture.

Enter His Gates

Enter His gates with thanksgiving
And His courts with praise;
Give thanks to Him and praise His name.
For the Lord is good and His love endures forever;
His faithfulness continues through all generations.

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Psalm 150

Hallelujah!
Praise God in His holy house of worship,
Praise Him under the open skies;
Praise Him for His acts of power,
Praise Him for His magnificent greatness;
Praise with a blast on the trumpet,
Praise by strumming soft strings;
Praise Him with tambourine and dance,
Praise Him with guitar and flute;
Praise Him with cymbals and a drum set,
Praise Him with violins and mandolin.
Let every living, breathing creature praise God!
Hallelujah!

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8 Ways To Do Strong Worship Seques With A Capo

By Jon Nicol (edited for length…see the original post here)

In our culture, “dead air” is distracting. A klutzy transition takes the focus off the worship and puts the attention on us and what we’re doing.

But a good transition will move people along a journey from one worship element to the next. It helps them keep the focus on worshiping God, not gawking at a failed segue.

The bottom line is this: Good segues = good stewardship.

I want to make the most of the time I’m given to lead worship. Why waste it with a lousy transition? So here’s some suggestions to help with your song transitions..

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1. Remove It Before The Song Ends
Take your capo off towards the end of the song during a section where you can afford to stop playing for a couple beats. Then finish the song using original key chords. You may need to use barre chords, but a hand-cramp is worth a smooth transition.

2. Add It Before the Song Ends
If you need to add or move your capo for the next song—but you want to play a musical transition into it—look for a place at the end of the previous song to make the capo change. Then play barre chords above the capo to finish it out.

3. Quick Access
Put your capo on the nut of the guitar so you can more quickly move it into play. Just make sure it doesn’t push on the strings on either side of the nut, making them go sharp or muting them.

4. Have Another Instrument Start the Next Song
Even a simple four-count from the drummer is enough time to switch the old Keyser.

5. Scripture
Put in a short, related scripture that leads to the next song. Consider having another vocalist read it.

6. Pad
Have keys fade in a synth pad, or the electric guitarist swell in some ambient pads, or even fade in a recorded pad from padloops.com.

7. Talking
Do a very brief verbal transition into the next song. Script out what you’re going to say and PRACTICE IT.

8. Planned Prayer
If you do decide a prayer is a fitting transition, plan that out, too. Ask yourself, “What will be meaningful to pray at that moment?” When we “wing it” while reaching for the capo, we tend to just regurgitate generic praises and phrases. So don’t be afraid to plan your prayer.

There are definitely more ideas we could dig into, but the key is this: be intentional and keep it simple.

Remember, it’s about leading people along a journey of worship—not inviting them to watch us change our capo.

Question: What are some ways you make great segues?

Jon Nicol is a worship pastor in Lexington, Ohio. He trains and coaches worship leaders and teams through WorshipTeamCoach.com. For more on making intentional transitions in worship, check out his newest resource, Worship Flow: 28 Ways to Create Great Segues.

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CrosswalkMovies’ Top 10 Films of 2014: A Christian Perspective

by Editorial Staff & Film Critics: Crosswalk.com ~ 

Back in early 2012, Crosswalk added an epilogue to our 2011 Movies of the Year feature in order to give some dap to the volume of faith-based films that were made that year (Courageous, Soul Surfer, The Way, etc.). We may not always rank these movies in our final Top 10, or automatically give them a stellar review, but we absolutely appreciate and applaud their being made! The single biggest reason behind our even offering pop culture content on Crosswalk is a deep belief that Christians should be the ones making art, telling stories, and evaluating and discussing the same in light of our faith.

So how could we kick off the same feature this year without acknowledging what happened on the same front? Major studios tried to give us two huge biblical epics from atheist directors, only to find out most believers weren’t buying (even the Christian-produced Son of God met with its share of criticism). Other big projects showcased the faith of major characters, such as The Good Lie, Selma, Fury, or Heaven is for Real, to mixed response. And several smaller pieces were likewise surprising hits (Ragamuffin, Irreplaceable) or unfortunate misses (the Left Behind reboot, Saving Christmas).

So, it’s true: you won’t find the mega-popular God’s Not Dead among our selections for Movie of the Year below. But we love that YOU loved it all the same, and that you came to banter with us about our take (which we stand behind, especially for the way all non-Christian characters were portrayed). Which films about faith did we love? Well, in addition to the Top 2 choices on our overall list, so many that we didn’t have room to list them all. If you scroll further down the article, you’ll see where each panelist got to name his or her favorite “film about faith” of the year, among several other categories. Such was the state of filmmaking in 2014 that even worthy choices like When the Game Stands Tall, Unbroken, Gimme Shelter, Mom’s Night Out and The Song had no place to go!

But here’s the bottom line: every film on our list resonated in some way with what the eight of us, as Christians, notice when we encounter a work of art that has something to say. We would like to invite you, however, before seeing any film we recommend, to visit our full review (we have linked to each of them) for a complete list of cautions and objectionable content. And so, without further ado, Crosswalk.com’s editorial staff and film critics proudly present OUR TOP FILMS OF 2014…

Top 10

10. THE THEORY OF EVERYTHING
Here because: If all you ever knew of Stephen Hawking was that the brilliant astrophysicist was confined to a wheelchair, used a robotic voice to speak, and may or may not believe in God (depending upon which quote from which period of his life you came across), you’ve missed the best part of an extraordinary story. Eddie Redmayne and Felicity Jones disappear into their roles as Stephen and Jane Wilde Hawking, whose memoir Traveling to Infinity: My Life with Stephen is the basis for the film. Stephen is the star of both the film and their life, while Jane provides the faith, unconditional love and care that will take them, well, maybe not quite as far as we’d hope. But hope still abounds in this honest and tender biopic, as do heartbreak, humanity and the musings of the heavens.

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From our review: “I was surprised at how much screen time was given to God and pleased to see His supporters were given as much respect as His detractors…. Eddie Redmayne… shows us the man behind the disease: brilliant theorist, loving father, husband, friend…. The whole thing is really well done. Each exquisitely lit, perfectly framed scene is a feast for the eyes. The beautiful city of Cambridge has never looked so lovely. Director James Marsh balances humor with drama so the story never gets too heavy or maudlin and the pace is spot on.” ~Susan Ellingburg

See also: Crosswalk’s Video Movie Review of The Theory of Everything

9. INTERSTELLAR
Here because: Very few commerical films are able to capture the scope and majesty of our universe, but Interstellar does so while delivering a story about humanity’s enduring spirit. Though it’s a secular film, questions about God, love, sacrifice and faith still linger around the edges. That, combined with its haunting music, breathtaking visuals, winning performances, and strong narrative about the importance of family, were more than enough to give director Christopher Nolan a place on our list for the sixth time in 10 years.

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From our review: “In the end, all the talk of different dimensions, black holes and space-travel theories pale next to the tears, anger and love expressed between parents and children in Interstellar, proving that sometimes the most profound of messages can be the simplest, no matter how complex and confusing everything else surrounding that main message might be.” ~Christian Hamaker

See also: Crosswalk’s Video Movie Review of Interstellar

8. THE HUNDRED FOOT JOURNEY
Here because: Simply put, it’s a visual feast for the soul. The cinematography is fantastic, with effortless transitions between beautiful scenes in the south of France and the sumptuous meals on display. Helen Mirren and Om Puri add some spice to the film as their characters feud over food, love and life before eventually making amends at Journey’s end. It may not be the most original of films, but its PG rating and resolution of clashing cultures will nonetheless leave viewers feeling content… and hungry.

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From our review: “Strong performances from established stars…, as well as charming breakout roles for Manish Dayal and Charlotte le Bon, are highlights, as is the gorgeous cinematography from Linus Sandgren… [who] is blessed not only with lovely locations, but with the ability to light his interior shots with the same evocative qualities he brings to exterior shots of the town at dawn… Yet the best imagery of all may be the food shots, which look even more gorgeous than the cast members. The Hundred Foot Journey is predictable, but so well played that it’s difficult not to like.” ~Christian Hamaker

See also: Crosswalk’s Video Movie Review of The Hundred Foot Journey

7. CHEF
Here because: We couldn’t bear deciding between one foodie film or another. Kidding! Chef’s father-son bonding over Dad’s passion is as hard to resist as one of Chef Carl Casper’s Cuban sandwiches. This film earned its way onto the list with a peek behind the scenes at the push-and-pull life of restaurant kitchens, at a guy hitting rock bottom in a world he no longer recognizes, and at how he reinvents himself in a social media age. There’s drama, there’s comedy, there’s delectable food… and there’s Robert Downey Jr. stealing the show in a cameo role.

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From our review: “If you’re a foodie in need of a funny movie, then I have the movie for you. Chef, from writer/director/star Jon Favreau, is a warm-hearted winner… The film shows how [a broken man] regroups by following his passion and trying to reconnect with his distant son. Refreshingly, Carl is not bitter about his divorce nor angry with his ex-wife, and the film isn’t about Carl finding new romance. If there’s a message to Chef, it’s one about vocation and calling.” ~Christian Hamaker

6. GUARDIANS OF THE GALAXY
Here because: Guardians of the Galaxy was the summer romp audiences just couldn’t get enough of. It had everything we’ve come to associate with a Marvel movie: an oddball cast of lovable characters, nail-biting action, witty banter, and a cameo appearance from Stan Lee. Guardians also proved its mettle by integrating a moving find-your-family dynamic and stellar playlist into the movie that became as much a part of the adventure as the characters themselves. It was fun, it was clever, and it was entertaining to watch a ragtag gang of ne’er-do-wells discover the heroes within each of them.

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From our review: “This tale from the outer fringes of the Marvel universe actually winds up being one of the year’s biggest surprises… What makes Guardians of the Galaxy work so well is a funny, fast-and-loose style [and] opting for the less-than-obvious Chris Pratt as the leading man and Bradley Cooper as the voice of a scene-stealing raccoon… With a smart script [to] impress the nerd contingency and newbies alike, Guardians of the Galaxy proves that fun can be found in the unlikeliest of places, even superhero movies that don’t follow a predictable course.” ~Christa Banister

See also: Crosswalk’s Video Movie Review of Guardians of the Galaxy

5. THE LEGO MOVIE
Here because: “Everything is Awesome!” Yes, that song, the Batman jokes, the make-it-up-as-you-go-along story (which is somewhat explained by the clever twist ending), the lessons about childhood vs. adulthood and finding what makes you special… all of it works in a madcap and hilarious way that encourages kids to get busy building whatever. One of the most clever non-Pixar animated films in recent memory may have been unfairly overlooked by the Academy, but not by our panel. We won’t be facing the wrath of Princess Unikitty!

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From our review: “Turns out to be a rapid-fire laugh machine that allows adults to enjoy several of its jokes. The further good news is that the film doesn’t pat itself on the back or constantly wink at the audience. It’s too busy loading the next laugh… Writers Phil Lord and Christopher Miller, …along with visual effects pioneers Animal Logic, have created a busy, impressive, colorful Lego world that feels simultaneously like a throwback to a pre-video game era as well as an advance in film animation. It’s all rather shocking—a wildly inventive, highly enjoyable and thoroughly entertaining family film when we least expect it.” ~Christian Hamaker

4. INTO THE WOODS
Here because: The musical feature on this year’s list, Into the Woods gave us a lot to think about, and made us question everything we thought we knew about fairytales! This Broadway classic from the 80s makes a smooth transition from stage to screen even as it changed a few things to make it accessible to a wider and younger audience. Into the Woods is dark-but-delightful, extremely rich in themes, and bursting with talent from an ensemble so gifted that child actors Lilla Crawford and Daniel Huttlestone shine just as brightly as veteran Meryl Streep. Have you ever wondered whether fairytales can teach us more than “Get the prince and live happily ever after”? Are you ready for an exploration of the far-reaching consequences of our choices? “Do you know what you wish? Are you certain what you wish is what you want?” Then journey confidently Into the Woods!

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From our review: “The secret to Into the Woods’ success is an all-star cast that’s apparently game for anything… Emphasizing how the most valuable of life lessons usually come at a great cost, …Into the Woods is the rare fairytale where ‘And they lived happily ever after’ isn’t necessarily part of the deal. That sense of realism… is something usually missing from Disney productions. Fairytales aren’t often the medium for exposing the cruel and chaotic realities of everyday existence, but Into the Woods offers a thrilling change of pace where substance and style are allowed to meaningfully co-exist.” ~Christa Banister

See also: Crosswalk’s Video Movie Review of Into the Woods

3. THE GRAND BUDAPEST HOTEL
Here because: Wes Anderson’s Moonrise Kingdom (2012) and Fantastic Mr. Fox (2009) made our list in the past, and the director has wowed us again with The Grand Budapest Hotel. Anderson is known for whimsy, peculiar characters, and clean, distinctive camerawork. Budapest includes all these signature moves, yet with a darker tone, and is set upon a bigger, more daring stage. The shining star of this funny and thought-provoking film is Ralph Fiennes as Monsieur Gustave, the proud and charming concierge at an otherworldly hotel which shines a nostalgic light in the midst of a war-torn Europe. On Gustave’s old-world ideals and demeanor, his mentee muses, “To be frank, I think the world he wanted to live in vanished long before he ever entered it – but, I will say: he certainly sustained the illusion with a marvelous grace!” Gustave, imperfect as he is, has ideals about civility worth striving for. It’s why we love both him and the film: “There are still faint glimmers of civilization left in this barbaric slaughterhouse that was once known as humanity… He was one of them. What more is there to say?

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From our review: “For those who’ve found [Wes Anderson’s] quaint yet quirky universe of flamboyant symmetry to be a tonal delight, The Grand Budapest Hotel will come as nothing short of a delicious and savory multi-course feast… One can’t help but relish the sumptuous palette of [this] period caper farce of quick yet subtle wit and dazzling invention. The eyes can’t help but pop at the pastel candy set pieces. It’s breathtaking almost to the point of distraction… Anderson has come fully into his own as an aesthetic master, not just in image and form but also word, wit, character, and sentiment.” ~Jeffrey Huston

2. CALVARY
Here because: In a year where films marketed to the faith audience were everywhere, unheralded indie Calvary, which actually has no evangelistic intent, stood out as the best. How did it manage that? By demonstrating a pain many Christians know so well: walking by faith, wanting to help, willing to be present, to listen… but being met with hostility and in-your-face sin nonetheless. And it does this smartly within the framing of a compelling mystery. Brendan Gleeson’s Father James serves as stand-in for anyone trying to represent Christ to fallen humanity, even as he knows he’s as fallen and human as the rest of them. But by film’s end we’re left asking if we would be willing to walk the Way as far as James, or offer the same sort of sacrifice and forgiveness.

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From our review: “When a religiously-themed film has no agenda towards either evangelism or secularism, it’s amazing just how legitimately thought-provoking it can be. Calvary [takes] an honest look at the cross a Catholic priest must carry in a world that’s hostile to his faith… Director John Michael McDonagh does more to honestly depict the walk of faith – at both its noblest and its darkest – than most so-called and self-proclaimed “Christian” movies ever do… In the end, Calvary – which is beautifully shot and patiently paced – is about a priest who chooses to be Christ, and the struggle (and occasional failure) to be righteous when you’re also human.” ~Jeffrey Huston

See also: Crosswalk’s Video Movie Review of Calvary

1. SELMA
Here because: The faith that informed everything Martin Luther King endured and stood for is front-and-center. Other actors have protrayed the civil rights hero before, but none so eloquently as David Oyelowo (another major oversight by the Academy). Ava DuVernay’s direction gently and artfully toggles between the major highlights we’ve heard about (Bloody Sunday, the March to Montgomery) and the small moments of humanity that touch any tender heart (conversations between Martin and Coretta, children chatting before tragedy strikes, the sad impossibility of a strong black woman attempting to register to vote). For the second consecutive year, our Movie of the Year touches on the history of what it has meant to encounter racial inequality on the North American continent in the last couple centuries. Selma is a haunting reminder of how far we’ve come, and how far we have yet to go before Rev. King’s dream becomes a full reality.

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From our review: “In virtually every respect, Selma is a triumph… One can’t walk away from Selma and not feel how much it resonates with America’s current examples of racial unrest. It speaks to where we are now, …especially as it sets a practical example of civil protest with moral clarity… In many key speeches, we see [Martin Luther] King give voice to the people, but through his own passion, anger, despair, and ideals. David Oyelowo appropriates King’s eloquence to moving perfection, but then deepens it beyond mimicry… Oyelowo is spontaneous, layered, and conflicted, and always in-the-moment. Instead of getting lost in the theatrics, Oyelowo taps into the soul that birthed them; his career-defining performance rises from that core.” ~Jeffrey Huston

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5 Ways to Fail-Proof Your Marriage

by Craig & Amy Groeschel ~ From this Day Forward: Five Commitments to Fail-Proof Your Marriage (Zondervan, 2014) 

No matter what your marriage has been like up to this point in time, it can be better from now on, because the Bible promises that God’s mercies are new every morning.

Think about a phrase that’s often part of wedding vows: “From this day forward.” If you and your spouse both commit to moving forward in your marriage in certain ways from this day forward, God will create a new, successful marriage for you.

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Here are 5 commitments that will make your marriage fail-proof if you and your spouse make them together:

1. Seek God. Make your relationship with God your highest priority, so that God is number one for you, while your spouse is your number two.

Center every part of your life around your relationship with God, seeking Him with your spouse in ways such as:

  • Reading the Bible together
  • Worshiping together regularly in a church and at your home
  • Participating with other Christians in a small group that meets regularly
  • Asking your friends to hold both of you accountable to grow together spiritually
  • Using your spiritual gifts to serve together in church
  • Doing volunteer work together to serve your community
  • Leading your children toward eternal values
  • Developing spiritual traditions together and with your children

Be careful not to idolize your spouse; keep in mind that he or she is only human. Rather than expecting your spouse to meet all of your needs, rely on God alone to meet your deepest needs.

Keep an open line of communication between you, your spouse, and God, by praying together regularly.

2. Fight fair. All couples fight, but not all couples fight fairly. Instead of handing the conflict between you and your spouse in an unhealthy way by fighting for personal victory, work through it in a healthy way by fighting for resolution.

Rather than trying to win against your spouse, aim to work with your spouse to achieve victory over the issue at hand by finding a solution to the problem behind it. Be quick to listen carefully to your spouse’s thoughts and feelings, slow to speak by carefully considering whether or not you should say what you’re thinking right now, and slow to become angry.

Avoid unhealthy arguing behavior, like:

  • Calling your spouse derogatory names
  • Raising your voice
  • Bringing up your spouse’s past mistakes
  • Threatening divorce
  • Criticizing
  • Stonewalling
  • Getting defensive
  • Showing contempt for your spouse

Deal with your disagreements daily, not going to bed angry, so you won’t have time to build up bitter grudges that can poison your relationship.

3. Have fun. Incorporate fun times with your spouse into your schedule on a regular basis. When you’re pressed for time, remind yourself that you don’t have time not to have fun together, because having fun with your spouse is vitally important to the emotional health of your marriage.

Enjoy a weekly date night together whenever possible to connect face-to-face through fun conversations and activities that build emotional intimacy between you. Support each other’s interests by accompanying each other on outings that one of you especially enjoys (such as going golfing with your husband if he loves that or going antiquing with your wife if she loves that).

Make your sex life with your spouse fun, and don’t neglect opportunities to enjoy sexual fun together, since it’s vital to keep romantic passion alive in your marriage.

4. Stay pure. Be vigilant in protecting your marriage from sexual immorality that can damage or destroy it. Realize that every little step you take for sexual pleasure that isn’t directed toward your spouse – each text, flirty conversation, website, mouse click, or sensual fantasy – will lead you a step away from the holy marriage God wants you to enjoy.

Keep in mind that allowing sexual impurity into your marriage is like dripping poison into your relationship; you don’t want any amount of poison in your marriage, because it only takes a little bit to kill your relationship.

Every day, ask the Holy Spirit to help you grow in both inward purity (the things you think about and feel) and outward purity (the things you choose to do and choose not to do). Whenever you encounter temptation to be sexually impure, don’t flirt with it, but run completely away from it as fast as you can.

Take precautions to limit how often you encounter the temptation to sin, such as by:

  • Using computer filters and monitoring software
  • Placing restrictions on your mobile phone
  • Refusing to meet with members of the opposite sex alone
  • Sharing a Facebook account with your spouse rather than having separate accounts
  • Avoiding certain types of movies and television shows
  • Dressing modestly
  • Meeting regularly with an accountability partner or two whom you trust

Read and reflect on the Bible often, asking the Holy Spirit to renew your mind so your thoughts will align with biblical truth and you can view the issue of sexual purity from God’s perspective.

Deal with sexual temptation and your failures as they happen to prevent yourself from sinking deeper into them. Be honest, transparent, and accountable. Confess your sins, embrace the forgiveness that God offers you, and rely on Him to strengthen you moving forward.

5. Never give up. Choose to keep investing time and energy into making your marriage better, no matter what.

Keep in mind that your marriage can be as good as you decide it will be, as long as your spouse chooses to work with you to keep improving it.

Remind yourselves that marriage isn’t just a contract that can be broken when the relationship isn’t working well; it’s a covenant that’s meant to be fulfilled for a lifetime as a sacred promise to God and each other.

Ask the Holy Spirit to empower you and your spouse to give each other love, forgiveness, and grace every day.

Never give up on your marriage, because God can do anything with it – with God all things are possible.

Craig Groeschel is the founding and senior pastor of Lifechurch.tv, a pace-setting, multi-campus church and creators of the popular and free YouVersion Bible App. He is a New York Times bestselling author and has written several books, including Fight,Soul Detox, Weird, The Christian Atheist, and It. Craig, his wife Amy, and their six children live in Edmond, Oklahoma.

Amy Groeschel is a home educating mom and leads LifeChurch.tv’s women’s ministry. She is also the founder of Branch15 (a nonprofit housing ministry that helps marginalized women) and has co-authored SOAR, a Bible study for women.

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Celebrating 30,000 Views: My Top 10 Blogs

Yesterday my blog went over 30,000 views from over 120 countries. That’s amazing! That means that thousands of worship leaders, musicians and Christians from all over the world have spent time reading and learning. What a privilege! Thank you to all who took time to read this blog.

Here are my top 10 posts with links..

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10.  10 Ways To Improve Your Worship Team ~ Part 1 of 4: One of my strengths is helping worship team grow and improve. Here are some of the things I’ve learned.

9.  What An Amazing Healing!: I love personal testimonies of healing. They stir up faith for our own situations. This testimony of being healed from cerebral palsy is amazing!

8.  6 Keys To Learning A Musical Instrument: I love to play musical instruments. I’ve learned to play around a dozen so far. Here is what I’ve learned.

7.  10 Tips On Improving Your Worship Band Rehearsal: Rehearsals are the price you pay for doing music at a good level. Here’s are some tips to help you in planning your rehearsals.

6.  What I’ve Learned About Improving Your Singing: I’ve always considered myself to be more of an instrumentalist than a singer, so improving my singing has been very important to me. Here is what I’ve learned so far.

5.  What I Learned From Working With A Billionaire: This blog is on life and leadership lessons that I learned from working with one of Canada’s richest men.

4.  What I’ve Learned About Picking New Songs For Worship: Learning to pick great worship songs for your congregation is extremely important. Here is what I’ve learned so far.

3.  You Need More FAT People On Your Worship Team: This is a great title and teaching that I picked up from a fellow worship leader: Wisdom Moon. Check it out.

2.  Guidelines For A Strong Worship Team: Are you wondering if you should set up some guidelines and rules for your team? Here are some guidelines that have worked for me.

1.  8 Tips On Taking Your Sunday Morning Worship To The Next Level: We all want to improve our teams. Here is my most popular blog (over 3,000 views) on the subject. I think it will help you.

Check out my new book.. “Leading Worship ~ Notes from a Grand Adventure’ available in Kindle or Soft Cover Editions.  This is a great gift for the musician or worshipper in your life.

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Andrae Crouch Celebration Of Life Highlights

Andrae Crouch’s music has been a huge influence on my life. So when I heard of his passing, I cleared my schedule, found the online links and took in the 4+ hour Celebration Concert on Jan 20, 2015 and the 4+ hour Andrae Crouch Celebration Of Life Service on Jan 21.

The line-up of musicians who came to honor him was incredible: The Winans family, Israel Houghton, members of the Hawkins family, Stevie Wonder, Kim Burrell, The Clark Sisters, Fred Hammond, Shirley Caesar and many other incredible singers and musicians from around the world. It was the ‘Who’s Who’ of gospel music.

Here are a few of my favorite moments:

Pastor Smokie Norful singing “My Tribute (To God Be the Glory)” .. this brought the house down… then it was followed by a ‘Praise Break’ 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pef3Sb8Qoso]

Then Fred Hammond had to follow that… He did an incredible job!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mEz9fnFDHpA

Another musical highlight was Kim Burrell.. incredible..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mcx56jN7_Dg&feature=youtu.be

And then there was Kristle Murden, Stevie Wonder, and Yolanda Adams performing, “I’ll Be Thinking Of You”

Then Shirley Caesar came up and brought the house down! ~ “Can’t Nobody Do Me Like Jesus”

https://www.youtube.com/watch?x-yt-cl=84411374&x-yt-ts=1421828030&v=aQbl9JIKPHQ

I had forgotten about “We Are Not Ashamed” until CeCe Winans came up.. wow..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?x-yt-ts=1421828030&x-yt-cl=84411374&v=lr3UZSFWOrQ

There were so many musical highlights and great testimonies and tributes.. there was over 8 hours of viewing… but one of the most touching tributes was from Andrea’s twin sister, Sandra Crouch.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?x-yt-ts=1421828030&x-yt-cl=84411374&v=PBPPj-2SIdQ

To God be the glory!

For those who would like to see more: check out this link

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7 Pictures To Put A Smile On Your Face

Coffee…

Before-coffee

That moment…

Funny-baby-meme

Wi-fi?….

Talk-to-each-other

Grandma..

Love-it-grandma

Surprise…

Funny-Babies-Pictures-2

Bacon…

Problems-Solved

Try this…

Havent-thought-of-this-before

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Andrae Crouch: Celebration of Life

The first time I saw Andrae live was in Honolulu, Hawaii when I was 16 years old. Andrae Crouch and the Disciples played in a packed out school auditorium and the place was rocking! Andrae’s music soon became part of the soundtrack of my life. Songs like ‘Soon and Very Soon’, ‘Through It All’, ‘Can’t Nobody Do Me Like Jesus’, ‘Jesus Is The Answer’, ‘My Tribute’, ‘The Blood Will Never Lose It’s Power’, ‘We Are Not Ashamed’ and the list goes on.

Later on, I was in a band that was on the same record label (Light Records). One incredible evening, I even got to play in his band at the Anaheim Convention Center in front of 12,ooo people. It was one of my most memorable gigs. A memory that I still cherish.

Ever since I heard of Andrae’s passing last week, I have been playing his music and enjoying the feelings, emotions and memories that great music inspires. Tonight is a ‘Celebration Concert’ and tomorrow is his ‘Celebration of Life Service’. No matter how young or old you are, don’t miss it. Andrae’s love for the Lord, his incredible gift of music and love for people will bless you.

  • For those who missed these great services: here is a link to some of the highlights.

Andre Crouch Celebratin of Life

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How to Instantly Click With Everyone You Meet

BY LOLLY DASKAL:

Why is it we click with some people and not others? What if we could actually click with everyone we meet? What would it take?

Try these simple steps to instantly connect with anyone–and to build stronger relationships with the people who are already in your life:

Friendly talk

Take a genuine interest.

Everyone–everyone–has something unique to offer. Find out what makes people who they are. Hear their story. Ask questions. Dig deep and connect.

Build on common ground.

At its most basic level, any relationship is built on some kind of common ground. When you meet someone, try to find something that connects you to similar backgrounds, values experiences. When you detect a pattern, a “Yeah, me too!” moment, connection is instantaneous.

Smile.

“Smile and the whole world smiles with you.” Sure, it’s a cliché, but for good reason. A smile generates enthusiasm and interest; it communicates friendliness and goodwill; it shows you to be accessible and approachable. Smile when you speak to someone, as you walk into a room, and when you pick up the phone.

Remember names.

Notice how people introduce themselves and let that be your guide in addressing them. Remembering a person’s name is important, and using it occasionally in conversation creates connection and helps you remember.

Encourage people to talk.

The key to locking into any relationship is to invite someone to talk, and then listen. Most people are just waiting for the other person to finish so they can say their part. Listen and show interest, even if it means stretching your attention span.

Learn from everyone you meet.

Keep the focus on the other person. As a bonus, this prevents your being dragged into gossip. Stay focused on his or her interests; find something this person can teach you that will be useful or interesting to know.

Show up with enthusiasm.

People who live with passion find it easier to connect with others. Knowing what you really care about and why, lets you tap into your own enthusiasm. Upbeat people are inherently likable, and those who radiate enthusiasm tend to click with others.

Make others feel important.

Use your words and attitude to create a spotlight. Let the person you’re speaking with know he or she is important, and important to you, by the way you talk. Let the sound of your voice be energized. Ask for input. Ask for advice. Ask for help. Ask for insight. Ask for experience. All of these invitations tell the person, “I find you important.”

Look for the good.

Be generous with others; look for points of agreement and places where you can affirm or reinforce what they’re saying. Speak patiently and with care, and those around you will feel heard and appreciated.

Treat others as you want to be treated.

As often as we’ve heard this, it’s still easy to forget to do it from time to time. Don’t overthink or complicate it: The power is in the simplicity.

Connecting with others does not take much. It is truly simple. Just be mindful, thoughtful, and genuinely interested.

Offer an honest compliment or your authentic appreciation. There’s always something to appreciate about almost anyone.

Maybe it’s nothing more than being genuine, as simple as being a leader–or a person–who cares, because when you care, you’ll instantly click with everyone you meet.

The original article is here.

LOLLY DASKAL is the president and CEO of LEAD FROM WITHIN, a global consultancy that specializes in leadership and entrepreneurial development. Daskal’s programs galvanize clients into achieving their best, helping them accelerate and deliver on their professional goals and business objectives

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