Why Do People Ignore God Until They’re in a Deep Mess?

“But while in deep distress, Manasseh sought the Lord his God and sincerely humbled himself before the God of his ancestors. And when he prayed, the Lord listened to him and was moved by his request. So the Lord brought Manasseh back to Jerusalem and to his kingdom. Then Manasseh finally realized that the Lord alone is God!” — 2 Chronicles 33:12–13 (NLT)

King Manasseh’s story is one of the most remarkable turnarounds in the Bible. He was one of Judah’s most wicked kings—he rebuilt pagan altars, practiced witchcraft, sacrificed his own sons, and led his nation far from God. But when he was taken prisoner by the Assyrians—dragged away with a hook in his nose and bound in bronze chains—something finally broke inside him. The Bible says, “While in deep distress, Manasseh sought the Lord his God and sincerely humbled himself.”

It’s a story as old as humanity itself: people often ignore God until life collapses around them. Then suddenly, they begin to pray. Why is that?

1. Comfort Breeds Complacency

When life is good—bills are paid, health is steady, relationships are fine—it’s easy to assume we’re in control. We subtly start believing we don’t need God as much. Like Manasseh, we may build our own “kingdoms” of success and self-sufficiency. But comfort can be dangerous; it dulls our awareness of our dependence on God.

C.S. Lewis once said, “Pain insists upon being attended to. God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our conscience, but shouts in our pains.” Sometimes it takes discomfort to wake us up.

2. Pride Blocks Our Vision

At the root of ignoring God is pride. Pride says, “I’ve got this. I don’t need help.” Manasseh was powerful, feared, and successful—until God allowed him to experience weakness. In chains, he finally saw what he could not see from his throne: that the Lord alone is God.
It’s often only when our pride is broken that we can see clearly again.

3. God’s Mercy Outlasts Our Mess

What’s astonishing in this story is not just Manasseh’s repentance—but God’s response. “The Lord listened to him and was moved by his request.
Even after years of rebellion and evil, God’s mercy was still available. Manasseh didn’t deserve a second chance, but God gave him one. That’s the heart of grace: it’s not about what we deserve—it’s about who God is.

Maybe you’ve been through a season of distress. Maybe you’ve ignored God for a while. The good news is this: it’s never too late to call on Him. No matter how far you’ve gone, no matter how deep the mess, God still listens to the sincere cry of a humble heart.

4. Turning Back Leads to True Awareness

The story ends with this phrase: “Then Manasseh finally realized that the Lord alone is God.”
Sometimes, the greatest realization of our lives comes after the hardest season. Trials strip away illusions. Pain clears our spiritual eyesight. When everything else is gone, we discover that God is not just an option—He’s the only foundation that holds.

A Final Thought

Don’t wait until you’re in deep distress to seek God. Learn from Manasseh’s story: humility doesn’t have to come through humiliation. God is just as near in your ordinary days as He is in your desperate ones.

The same God who listened to a broken king in a prison cell still listens to you today. Seek Him while you can—and you might just discover, before the storm ever hits, that the Lord alone is God.


About Mark Cole

Jesus follower, Husband, Grandfather, Worship Leader, Writer, Pastor, Teacher, Founding Arranger for Praisecharts.com, pickleball player, blogger & outdoor enthusiast.. (biking, hiking, skiing). Twitter: @MarkMCole Facebook: mmcole
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