8 Keys to Staying Close to God (Psalm 63)

“O God, You are my God; earnestly I seek You…” (Psalm 63:1)

Psalm 63 is one of the most intimate and passionate expressions of devotion in all of Scripture. Written by David while he was in the wilderness of Judah—a dry, harsh, and lonely place—it reveals what a heart fully devoted to God looks like when everything else is stripped away.

David wasn’t in comfort when he wrote this. He was in need. And yet, instead of complaining, he leaned in. That’s where the power of this psalm lies.

Here are 8 timeless keys, on drawing close to God, we can learn from Psalm 63:

1. Seek God First—Not Last

David begins with intensity: “earnestly I seek You.”
Not casually. Not occasionally. Earnestly.

When life gets busy or difficult, it’s easy to drift into seeking solutions, relief, or distraction first. David models something better—go straight to God.

Lesson:
Make God your first pursuit each day, not your last resort.


2. Your Deepest Need Is Spiritual, Not Circumstantial

David says, “My soul thirsts for You, my body longs for You, in a dry and weary land where there is no water.”

He was physically in a desert—but he recognized that his greatest thirst wasn’t for water. It was for God.

We often think, “If this situation changed, I’d be fine.” But David shows us that even in hardship, the deeper need is always spiritual.

Lesson:
Don’t confuse external problems with your deepest need. Your soul needs God more than your circumstances need fixing.


3. Remember God’s Faithfulness

David reflects: “I have seen You in the sanctuary and beheld Your power and Your glory.”

In the wilderness, he looked back at what God had already done.

That’s not nostalgia—it’s fuel for faith.

Lesson:
When you’re in a dry season, rehearse what God has already shown you. Past encounters strengthen present trust.


4. God’s Love Is Better Than Life

One of the most striking lines: “Because Your love is better than life, my lips will glorify You.”

That’s a bold statement. Better than success. Better than health. Better than life itself.

David had discovered something many never do—that God’s love satisfies at the deepest level.

Lesson:
If you truly grasp God’s love, you won’t need lesser things to carry the weight of your joy.


5. Worship Is a Choice—Especially in the Wilderness

David says, “I will praise You… I will be fully satisfied… I will sing.”

Notice the language: I will.

Worship wasn’t based on his surroundings—it was a decision.

Lesson:
Don’t wait until you feel like worshipping. Choose it. Especially when you don’t feel like it.


6. Satisfaction Comes From God Alone

“My soul will be satisfied as with the richest of foods.”

David wasn’t sitting at a feast—he was in a desert. Yet he speaks of deep satisfaction.

That’s the difference between external comfort and internal fulfillment.

Lesson:
You can have very little outwardly and still be deeply satisfied inwardly—if your soul is anchored in God.


7. Night Seasons Can Become Sacred Moments

David writes, “On my bed I remember You; I think of You through the watches of the night.”

Instead of letting anxiety dominate his thoughts at night, he turned those quiet hours into communion with God.

Lesson:
Use restless or quiet moments to draw closer to God instead of drifting into worry.


8. Stay Close—God Is Your Help

“Because You are my help, I sing in the shadow of Your wings. I cling to You; Your right hand upholds me.”

There’s both effort and dependence here: David clings, but God upholds.

That’s the balance of the Christian life.

Lesson:
Stay close to God—but remember, your security ultimately rests in His grip on you, not just yours on Him.


Final Thought

Psalm 63 teaches us that the wilderness doesn’t have to be a place of spiritual dryness—it can become a place of deep encounter.

When everything else is removed, what remains becomes clear.

David had lost comfort, security, and ease—but he hadn’t lost God. And that was enough.

So here’s the question:
What are you really thirsting for today?

If you’ll seek God earnestly, like David did, you’ll discover something profound:

He doesn’t just meet your needs—He becomes your greatest satisfaction.

About Mark Cole

Jesus follower, Husband, Grandfather, Worship Leader, Writer, Pastor, Teacher, Founding Arranger for Praisecharts.com, pickleball player, blogger & outdoor enthusiast.. (biking, hiking, skiing). Twitter: @MarkMCole Facebook: mmcole
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