The Most Important Thing

Posted on February 4, 2025 by Mark Cole

In a world full of distractions, endless pursuits, and countless responsibilities, it can be easy to lose sight of what truly matters. We ask ourselves, What should I focus on? What’s most important in life? Thankfully, Jesus’ words in Matthew 22:36-40 cut through the noise and point us to the answer.

A religious scholar once approached Jesus with a question: “Teacher, which is the most important commandment in the law of Moses?” Without hesitation, Jesus replied: “You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. A second is equally important: Love your neighbor as yourself. The entire law and all the demands of the prophets are based on these two commandments.”

These two commands—loving God and loving our neighbor—are not just important; they are the foundation for everything else in life. Let’s explore why these are the most important things we can do and how they transform every aspect of our lives.

Why Loving God is the Most Important Thing

To love God with all our heart, soul, and mind is to place Him at the center of our lives. It means to worship Him fully, trust Him completely, and prioritize Him above all else. Why is this the most important thing?

  1. God is the Source of Everything Loving God acknowledges that He is the Creator and Sustainer of our lives. We exist because of Him, and everything we have comes from Him. When we love Him, we align our lives with His purposes and experience the fullness of His presence.
  2. It Restores Our Identity We were created to be in a loving relationship with God. Sin distorts this relationship, but through Jesus, we are invited back into fellowship with Him. Loving God restores our true identity as His children.
  3. It Shapes Our Character The more we love God, the more we become like Him. As we spend time in His Word, in prayer, and in worship, our hearts are transformed. We begin to reflect His love, kindness, and holiness.

Why Loving Your Neighbor is Equally Important

Loving God and loving others are inseparable. The more we experience God’s love, the more it overflows into our relationships. Here’s why loving our neighbor is vital:

  1. It Reflects God’s Heart God’s love is inclusive and sacrificial. When we love others, we mirror His character and demonstrate the Gospel in action. As 1 John 4:20 reminds us, “Whoever does not love their brother or sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen.”
  2. It Brings Healing to a Broken World The world is filled with division, hatred, and pain. Loving our neighbors—whether they are family, friends, strangers, or even enemies—brings light into the darkness. Acts of love, however small, have the power to transform lives.
  3. It Fulfills the Law Paul writes in Romans 13:10, “Love does no harm to a neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.” When we love others, we naturally obey God’s commandments, because love seeks the good of others.

How to Love God and Love Others

Practicing these two commandments requires intentionality and surrender. Here are some practical steps:

  1. Spend Time with God To love God deeply, we need to know Him. Prioritize daily time in Scripture, prayer, and worship. Let His Word shape your thoughts and actions.
  2. Obey His Commands Jesus said, “If you love Me, obey My commandments” (John 14:15). Our love for God is demonstrated through our obedience. Seek to live a life that honors Him.
  3. Look for Opportunities to Serve Loving your neighbor starts with a willingness to serve. Look for practical ways to meet the needs of those around you—a kind word, a listening ear, or a helping hand can make a big difference.
  4. Forgive and Extend Grace Loving others isn’t always easy. People can hurt or disappoint us. But as recipients of God’s grace, we are called to forgive and extend the same grace to others.
  5. Pray for Others Interceding for others in prayer is one of the most powerful ways to love them. Ask God to bless, guide, and draw them closer to Him.

Why This Matters

At the end of our lives, what will matter most is not how much we achieved, how much wealth we accumulated, or how popular we were. What will matter is how well we loved. Did we love God wholeheartedly? Did we love others selflessly?

Jesus’ words remind us of the simplicity and beauty of the Gospel: love God and love people. When we make these our highest priorities, we fulfill God’s purpose for our lives and leave a lasting legacy.

So, what is the most important thing? It’s love. Love for God. Love for others. May we live each day with this as our focus, and in doing so, bring glory to God and hope to the world.

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Worship Teams: Overcoming Fear and Anxiety

Posted on February 3, 2025 by Mark Cole

Fear, anxiety, and stage fright are common struggles for singers and worship team members. Standing before a congregation to lead worship requires vulnerability and courage. Whether you’re new to the team or a seasoned leader, it’s natural to feel nervous. However, these feelings can be overcome with the right mindset, preparation, and spiritual focus. Here are some practical and spiritual tips to help worship team members overcome stage fright and serve confidently.

1. Recognize the Root of Fear

Fear often stems from a focus on self—worrying about how you’ll sound, look, or perform. Shift your focus to God and the purpose of your worship. Remember, you’re not performing; you’re leading others to connect with the Lord. Meditate on verses like 2 Timothy 1:7: “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.”

2. Pray and Surrender Your Fear

Take your fears to God in prayer. Before you step onto the stage, pray for His presence to guide you and for the Holy Spirit to flow through your ministry. Surrendering your anxiety to Him allows you to find peace. Philippians 4:6-7 reminds us, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God…will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

3. Prepare Thoroughly

Preparation builds confidence. Make sure you’re musically prepared by:

  • Learning your parts thoroughly.
  • Practicing at home with recordings and charts.
  • Attending rehearsals and being fully engaged.

When you feel prepared, you’ll reduce the “what ifs” that fuel anxiety.

4. Practice in Safe Environments

If stage fright is overwhelming, start small:

  • Practice singing or playing in front of friends or family.
  • Join smaller worship settings, like a home group or youth service, before stepping onto a larger stage.
  • Gradually increase the size of your audience as your confidence grows.

5. Focus on Worship, Not Performance

Remember, the goal of worship ministry is not perfection but connection—with God and with the congregation. Keep your heart focused on honoring Him, not on impressing others. Worship is about authenticity, not technical flawlessness.

6. Use Breathing Techniques

Deep breathing helps calm your nervous system and reduces physical symptoms of stage fright. Before going on stage:

  • Take slow, deep breaths in through your nose and out through your mouth.
  • Focus on releasing tension in your shoulders, neck, and jaw.

7. Speak Truth Over Your Fears

Replace fearful thoughts with Scripture and positive affirmations. Remind yourself:

  • “God is with me and will guide me.” (Isaiah 41:10)
  • “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” (Philippians 4:13)
  • “I am here to serve, not to be perfect.”

8. Build a Supportive Team Culture

An encouraging team can make all the difference. Leaders and team members can:

  • Pray for each other before worship services.
  • Speak words of affirmation and encouragement.
  • Foster a culture where mistakes are seen as opportunities to grow, not failures.

9. Embrace Small Mistakes

Everyone makes mistakes—even seasoned worship leaders! If you miss a note or forget lyrics, don’t let it derail you. Most people won’t notice, and even if they do, they’ll appreciate your authenticity. Keep going, and focus on the bigger picture of worshiping God.

10. Reflect After Each Service

Take time to reflect on what went well and areas for growth. Celebrate progress, no matter how small. Over time, you’ll see how God is growing your confidence and your heart for worship.

Final Encouragement

Overcoming stage fright is a journey, not a destination. It requires a combination of spiritual growth, mental discipline, and practical preparation. As you take steps to face your fears, trust that God is working in and through you. Your vulnerability and courage can inspire others and draw them closer to Jesus.

Step onto the stage with boldness, knowing that you’re not alone. God’s presence is with you, and His strength is made perfect in your weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). Lead with confidence, humility, and a heart of worship—and watch how God moves through you.

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“Many Are Called, but Few Are Chosen” — What Did Jesus Mean?

Posted on February 3, 2025 by Mark Cole

The statement, “For many are called, but few are chosen” (Matthew 22:14), is one of Jesus’ most thought-provoking sayings. It comes at the end of the Parable of the Wedding Feast, a story that illustrates profound truths about God’s kingdom, the nature of salvation, and the human response to His grace. But what does it really mean?

Let’s dive into the context of the parable and explore its lessons for us today.

The Parable of the Wedding Feast: A Quick Overview

In Matthew 22:1-14, Jesus tells the story of a king who prepares a grand wedding banquet for his son. The king sends out invitations to a select group, but they refuse to come. Some are indifferent, while others respond with hostility, mistreating and even killing the king’s servants. In anger, the king destroys the murderers and extends the invitation to anyone his servants can find—both the good and the bad. The banquet hall is filled with guests.

However, the king notices one man without proper wedding attire. This guest is cast out into “the outer darkness,” with “weeping and gnashing of teeth.” Jesus concludes the parable with, “For many are called, but few are chosen.”

What Does It Mean to Be Called?

The “call” represents God’s invitation to salvation. Through Jesus, God has extended this call to all of humanity. It is a universal invitation, symbolizing His grace and desire for everyone to come to Him. This is echoed in passages like John 3:16, which states that “God so loved the world” that He gave His Son so that “whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

The king in the parable sent out invitations multiple times, showing the persistence and generosity of God’s call. Yet, not everyone accepts the invitation, and some reject it outright.

Why Are Few Chosen?

While the invitation is extended to many, being “chosen” requires a specific response. The difference lies in how individuals respond to the call. Let’s explore two key factors:

1. Acceptance of the Invitation

Some in the parable ignored the king’s invitation. Others responded with hostility, mistreating the servants who delivered the message. These responses highlight the reality that not everyone welcomes God’s offer of salvation. The chosen are those who respond positively, accepting the invitation with humility and gratitude.

2. The Wedding Garment

Even among those who accept the invitation, the parable emphasizes the importance of being properly “clothed.” The wedding garment symbolizes the righteousness that comes from God. Isaiah 61:10 describes it as being “clothed with garments of salvation” and “arrayed in a robe of righteousness.”

This garment is not something we provide for ourselves; it is given to us through faith in Christ. The guest without the wedding garment represents those who try to participate in God’s kingdom on their own terms, without submitting to His transformative work.

Key Lessons for Us Today

1. God’s Invitation Is Universal

The parable underscores the inclusivity of God’s call. It is extended to everyone, regardless of their background, status, or past mistakes. As followers of Christ, we are called to reflect this inclusivity by sharing the gospel widely and inviting others to experience God’s grace.

2. Our Response Matters

While God’s grace is freely given, our response determines whether we are among the chosen. Accepting the invitation involves more than saying “yes”; it requires aligning our lives with God’s will and allowing Him to transform us from the inside out.

3. Faith Must Be Authentic

The guest without the wedding garment serves as a warning against superficial faith. Attending church, performing good deeds, or associating with other believers is not enough. True faith is evidenced by a life clothed in righteousness, reflecting God’s work in our hearts.

4. Judgment Is Real

The parable also reminds us of the reality of judgment. Those who reject God’s call or try to enter His kingdom on their own terms will face separation from Him. This is a sobering truth that should inspire us to take God’s invitation seriously and share it with urgency.

Practical Applications

  1. Examine Your Own Response: Have you truly accepted God’s invitation, and are you living in alignment with His will? Take time to reflect on your faith and allow the Holy Spirit to transform your life.
  2. Share the Invitation: Be like the king’s servants, actively inviting others to experience God’s grace. Look for opportunities to share the gospel with people in your community, workplace, or social circles.
  3. Clothe Yourself in Righteousness: Don’t rely on your own efforts or good deeds to be part of God’s kingdom. Instead, trust in Christ’s righteousness and let His grace shape your character and actions.
  4. Stay Humble: Recognize that being “chosen” is not about merit but about God’s grace. Approach your faith journey with humility and gratitude, knowing that it is God who equips and sustains you.

Final Thoughts

Jesus’ words, “For many are called, but few are chosen,” remind us of the seriousness of responding to God’s call. It is a sobering yet hopeful message. While the invitation is extended to many, only those who respond in faith and allow God’s righteousness to clothe them will be part of His kingdom.

The good news is that the invitation is still open. If you’ve heard God’s call, don’t delay. Say “yes” to Him, and allow His grace to transform your life so that you may join in the joy of His eternal presence.

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God’s Favor: Lessons from Joseph’s Journey

Posted on February 2, 2025 by Mark Cole

The story of Joseph in Genesis is one of the most remarkable accounts of God’s favor and sovereignty. From being his father’s favorite son to becoming a slave, a prisoner, and ultimately the ruler of Egypt, Joseph’s life showcases how God’s hand is at work even in the most challenging circumstances. Let’s explore the ways God’s favor shaped Joseph’s journey and how the difficulties he faced prepared him for his ultimate purpose.

1. Favor in Unlikely Places

Joseph’s life began with a clear sign of favor. His father, Jacob, loved him deeply and gave him a special coat of many colors. But this favor stirred jealousy among his brothers, leading them to sell him into slavery. Even as a slave in Potiphar’s house, God’s favor remained on Joseph. Genesis 39:2-4 says, “The Lord was with Joseph so that he prospered, and he lived in the house of his Egyptian master. When his master saw that the Lord was with him and that the Lord gave him success in everything he did, Joseph found favor in his eyes and became his attendant.”

God’s favor didn’t prevent hardship, but it was evident through Joseph’s character and work ethic. Potiphar recognized that Joseph was blessed, which led to Joseph’s promotion and stewardship over the household.

Similarly, in prison, after being falsely accused by Potiphar’s wife, Joseph experienced the same favor. Genesis 39:21 says, “The Lord was with him; he showed him kindness and granted him favor in the eyes of the prison warden.” Even in a dark and unjust place, God’s favor caused Joseph to rise in responsibility and trustworthiness.

2. Preparing for Purpose Through Hardship

God’s favor doesn’t exempt us from suffering. In Joseph’s case, slavery and imprisonment were not detours but necessary training grounds for his ultimate role as Egypt’s ruler. Each trial equipped Joseph with the skills and character traits he would need:

  • In Potiphar’s house: Joseph learned how to manage people, oversee resources, and handle responsibilities with integrity. These administrative skills would later serve him as Pharaoh’s second-in-command.
  • In prison: Joseph developed resilience and compassion. His interactions with the cupbearer and the baker gave him opportunities to interpret dreams, which would later open the door to Pharaoh’s court. His ability to remain faithful in small things prepared him for larger responsibilities.

It’s worth noting that the prison was not just a place of confinement but also a place of divine appointment. Joseph’s meeting with the cupbearer and baker set the stage for his introduction to Pharaoh. What seemed like wasted time was actually a season of strategic preparation.

3. God’s Sovereignty in Joseph’s Rise

When Pharaoh had troubling dreams, Joseph’s years of faithfulness and preparation paid off. He interpreted the dreams and offered wisdom that saved Egypt and surrounding nations from famine. Genesis 41:39-41 recounts Pharaoh’s response: “Since God has made all this known to you, there is no one so discerning and wise as you. You shall be in charge of my palace, and all my people are to submit to your orders. Only with respect to the throne will I be greater than you.”

Joseph’s rise to power wasn’t just about his skills or favor; it was about God’s plan to preserve His people. The famine would bring Joseph’s brothers to Egypt, setting the stage for reconciliation and the fulfillment of God’s promise to Abraham to make his descendants a great nation.

4. Lessons for Us Today

Joseph’s story reminds us that God’s favor doesn’t always look like smooth sailing. Instead, it often comes with challenges that shape us for greater purposes. Here are some takeaways:

  • God is with us in every season. Whether we’re in a position of influence or in a place of struggle, God’s presence remains constant. Like Joseph, we can trust that He is working behind the scenes.
  • Hardship can be preparation. What feels like a setback may actually be training for what’s ahead. God uses difficulties to refine our character and equip us for His plans.
  • God’s favor impacts others. Joseph’s favor wasn’t just for his benefit; it blessed Potiphar’s household, the prison, and ultimately an entire nation. When we walk in God’s favor, our influence can extend far beyond ourselves.
  • Trust God’s timing. Joseph waited years to see the fulfillment of his dreams. During that time, he remained faithful and allowed God to work through him. We, too, must trust that God’s timing is perfect, even when the process is long.

Final Thoughts

The story of Joseph is a testament to God’s ability to bring good out of even the darkest situations. Slavery and prison were not the end of Joseph’s story; they were stepping stones to his destiny. As we reflect on Joseph’s journey, let’s be encouraged to trust in God’s favor, remain faithful in every season, and believe that He is preparing us for His greater purposes. What may feel like a pit today could be the pathway to the palace tomorrow.

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Music Mission to Albania: Partner with Us to Make an Impact

Posted on February 1, 2025 by Mark Cole

This June, Anna and I have an incredible opportunity to bring the love of Christ and the gift of music to Albania! We’re excited to share how God is leading us to serve in this beautiful, predominantly Muslim country, and we’d love for you to partner with us in this mission.

Albania is a nation where only 0.5% of the population identifies as evangelical Christians. It’s a place where the church is small but growing, and there is a great need for encouragement, training, and love. That’s where we come in—and, through your partnership, so do you!

What We’ll Be Doing

During our 10 days in Albania, we’ll be working alongside LoveAlbania.com to serve in the following ways:

  • Empowering Women: Anna will lead workshops to equip women with tools to grow in their faith and purpose. Her sessions will provide encouragement and practical ways to navigate life as Christ-followers in their cultural context.
  • Reaching Children: We’ll assist in a children’s day camp where we will share Jesus, teach music, piano, and guitar, and bring joy and creativity into their lives. These kids will experience the love of God through fun and learning.
  • Equipping Worship Teams: I’ll lead a music worship seminar designed to train musicians and worship leaders to develop their skills and deepen their understanding of worship. This is vital for strengthening local churches and their ability to reach their communities.
  • Ministering in Churches: We’ll have the privilege of serving in local churches, using music and teaching to encourage believers and help build their faith.

Why We Need Your Help

To make this mission possible, we are raising $8,000 to cover:

  • Flights and travel expenses.
  • Seminar materials for musicians, worship teams, and women.
  • Supplies for the children’s day camp.

This is more than just a trip—it’s an opportunity to invest in the growth of the church in Albania and help spread the message of Christ in a meaningful way.

How You Can Be Part of This Mission

We’d love for you to partner with us through prayer, financial giving, or both. Here’s how you can help:

  1. Donate: You can contribute through www.global-ministry.com/donate. Be sure to include a note that says, “Mark & Anna Cole – Albania Trip” so your gift is directed toward this mission. All donations are tax-deductible.
  2. Pray: Your prayers are vital! Pray for the people we’ll meet, the churches we’ll work with, and the children and musicians we’ll teach. Pray also for our health, safety, and effectiveness in ministry.
  3. Let Us Know: If you contribute, please send us a quick email at mark.cole@mac.com or text us at 403-966-1871. This allows us to personally thank you and keep you updated on how your generosity is making an impact.

Join Us in Making a Difference

We believe this mission will leave a lasting impact in Albania, and we’re thrilled to have the chance to serve in this way. But we can’t do it without you. Your support—financial and spiritual—will enable us to bring hope, encouragement, and the love of Jesus to this beautiful country.

Thank you for considering joining us in this adventure of faith. Together, we can make a difference for His Kingdom in Albania.

With gratitude,
Mark & Anna Cole

P.S. If you’d like more information or have questions about our trip, feel free to contact us at mark.cole@mac.com or text us at 403-966-1871.

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10 Blessings of Spending Time with God

Posted on January 31, 2025 by Mark Cole

Spending time with God daily is not just a spiritual discipline—it is a pathway to abundant blessings that transform every area of life. Whether it’s through prayer, worship, or reading His Word, intentionally setting aside time for God fills us with His presence and equips us to face life’s challenges with grace and strength. Here are ten incredible blessings you receive when you spend time with God each day:

1. Knowing Love

God is love (1 John 4:8). When we spend time with Him, we experience His unconditional love and learn how to love others. His love gives us security, confidence, and peace, reminding us of our worth in His eyes.

2. Peace Beyond Understanding

Life can be stressful and unpredictable, but God’s peace surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). In His presence, our anxieties are replaced with calm assurance, and our hearts find rest.

3. Unshakable Joy

Psalm 16:11 says, “In Your presence there is fullness of joy.” Spending time with God helps us tap into a joy that is not dependent on circumstances but rooted in our relationship with Him.

4. Wisdom for Daily Living

When we seek God, He provides wisdom and discernment to make the right decisions. James 1:5 promises, “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault.”

5. Strength for Every Challenge

Life’s challenges can drain us, but time with God renews our strength. Isaiah 40:31 reminds us that those who wait on the Lord will “soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.”

6. Clear Guidance

Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us to trust in the Lord, and He will direct our paths. Time with God helps us align our hearts with His will and find clarity when we feel uncertain.

7. Forgiveness and Grace

When we come to God, we are reminded of the forgiveness we have through Christ. This grace not only restores our relationship with Him but also empowers us to extend grace to others (Ephesians 4:32).

8. Increased Faith

Faith comes by hearing the Word of God (Romans 10:17). Daily time in Scripture builds our trust in His promises and strengthens our faith to overcome fear and doubt.

9. Identity and Purpose

In a world that often tries to define us by achievements or failures, time with God reminds us of who we are in Him: His beloved children. Jeremiah 29:11 assures us that God has a plan and purpose for our lives.

10. Hope for the Future

Spending time with God fills us with hope, even in difficult seasons. Romans 15:13 says, “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.”

Final Thoughts

The blessings of spending time with God are immeasurable. It’s not about checking off a task from your daily list but about nurturing a life-giving relationship with the Creator of the universe. As you set aside time for Him, you’ll find yourself growing in love, peace, joy, and so much more. Make it a priority, and watch how God transforms your life in beautiful and unexpected ways.

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10 Tests Of A Good Worship Leader

Posted on January 31, 2025 by Mark Cole

How are you doing as a worship leader? How do you know if you are a good worship leader? Let me suggest a few guidelines that will help to quantify your leadership.

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10 Tests Of A Good Worship Leader

1. Is the congregation singing with you?

When you look out at the congregation, are they singing? Do you have a way to quantify how well your congregation is participating? Can you hear the congregation from the stage?

Note: There are some people who rarely sing and that’s between them and God. But, is the majority of your congregation singing?

2. Is the congregation worshiping God with you? 

The Biblical actions of worship are singing, playing instruments, lifting hands, clapping, shouting, dancing, bowing down and standing. Is your congregation worshipping God in these ways in your corporate worship times?

3. Is the congregation growing in their worship of God?

Is your congregation growing? Are there more people here this year than last? Are more people participating in corporate worship this year than last?  Do you get reports that the congregation senses God in the midst of your corporate worship time? 

Note: Some areas of growth are beyond a worship leader’s responsibility. The general growth and maturity of a congregation is a whole team effort.

4. Is the worship band prepared?

Are you having good rehearsals? Is the attendance at those rehearsals strong? Does the band know the music so well that they can get beyond the music and worship on Sunday mornings?

5. Is the worship band growing and improving?

Is your worship band stuck in a rut? Are you adding new members? Are you growing spiritually and musically? Is your worship team growing spiritually and musically?

6. Is the worship band worshiping?

Is the band just playing music or are they worshiping as they play? When the congregation looks at the band and singers are they inspired to worship God? Are you and your team modelling what you want to see in the congregation?

7. Are you training up new worship leaders?

Jesus told us to make disciples. If your area of ministry is worship then you need to work on growing new worship leaders. Are new worship leaders growing up in your ministry?

8. Is the pastoral staff worshiping with you?

Having a good relationship with the pastoral staff is integral to your long-term success. Does the staff trust you on stage? Are they setting a good example in their worship of God?

9. Are you spending regular time with God in Bible reading and prayer?

Public leading is only the tip of the iceberg. Your personal relationship with God is the most important part of your worship. How is your prayer and Bible reading doing?

10. Do you worship God in private or just on stage?

A danger sign for worship leaders is if their worship is just public. God is more impressed with what you do in the ‘Secret Place’. How is your daily worship of God? Are you singing and worshiping in private?

Question: Are these valid ways to quantify worship leadership? Am I missing any key questions?

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10 Keys to Growing a Small Church

Posted on January 30, 2025 by Mark Cole

Working in a small church is a special privilege. It’s intimate, personal, and often deeply fulfilling. However, small churches often face unique challenges when it comes to growth. Whether your goal is numerical growth, deeper discipleship, or both, here are some proven strategies to help your church thrive.

1. Develop a Clear Vision

The starting point for any growth is clarity. As a leadership team, prayerfully discern and articulate what God is calling your church to be and do in your community. This vision should be:

  • Biblical: Rooted in Scripture.
  • Contextual: Specific to the needs of your local area.
  • Actionable: Provide clear steps for members to engage.

Once the vision is clear, communicate it often—from the pulpit, in small groups, and through everyday conversations.

2. Focus on Prayer and Spiritual Vitality

Church growth begins with a deep reliance on God. Encourage your church to become a praying church. This could include:

  • Hosting regular prayer meetings.
  • Teaching on prayer in sermons and Bible studies.
  • Encouraging individual and corporate fasting for growth and revival.
  • Scheduling regular water baptisms.

Spiritual vitality also grows as leaders and members commit to living out their faith authentically. People are drawn to a community where God is visibly at work.

3. Strengthen Your Children’s Ministry

Investing in children is one of the most effective ways to grow your church. Parents are often drawn to churches where their kids are valued and nurtured spiritually. Here are practical steps:

  • Create a welcoming environment: Make sure your children’s spaces are safe, clean, and fun.
  • Teach the Bible creatively: Use storytelling, crafts, and games to bring Scripture to life.
  • Engage families: Host family-friendly events and encourage parents to participate in their children’s spiritual growth.

When kids love coming to church, they often bring their parents along, creating opportunities for family-wide transformation.

4. Make Worship Engaging and Spirit-Filled

Worship is one of the first things visitors experience, and it sets the tone for the service. To make worship a magnet for your church:

  • Choose songs that resonate with your congregation but also challenge them to grow.
  • Involve your congregation by encouraging participation (e.g., clapping, reading Scripture together, etc.).
  • Train your team to minister skillfully and spiritually.

Visitors often decide within the first 10 minutes whether they’ll return. An engaging worship experience that points to Jesus can leave a lasting impact.

5. Invest in Relationships

Small churches have the advantage of being personal. Leverage that! Create a culture where people feel seen, valued, and included. Here are practical steps:

  • Greet warmly: Make the welcome experience genuine and memorable.
  • Follow up: Reach out to visitors within 24-48 hours.
  • Build community: Host regular meals, small groups, or events to foster relationships.

When people feel connected, they’re more likely to stay and invite others.

6. Identify and Meet Community Needs

Ask yourself: What are the pressing needs in our community, and how can we meet them? For example:

  • Host food drives or partner with local shelters.
  • Offer free workshops or classes (e.g., parenting, finances, or ESL).
  • Organize family-friendly events like picnics or sports tournaments.

When your church becomes known for loving its community, people will be drawn to the source of that love.

7. Equip and Empower Members to Serve

Growth is sustainable when everyone takes ownership of the mission. Equip your members to:

  • Invite others: Teach them how to share their faith naturally.
  • Serve: Provide opportunities to use their gifts in ministry.
  • Disciple: Encourage one-on-one mentoring relationships.

A church that empowers its members becomes a vibrant, multiplying community.

8. Excellence in Preaching and Teaching

The Word of God is the foundation of any growing church. Ensure your teaching and preaching are:

  • Biblically sound: Rooted in Scripture.
  • Relevant: Address topics meaningful to people’s lives.
  • Engaging: Use stories and illustrations to make the message memorable.

When people are fed spiritually, they’ll be eager to come back and invite others.

9. Embrace Change Wisely

Growth often requires change. This could mean:

  • Updating your facilities or signage.
  • Trying a new service time or format.
  • Introducing technology for live streaming or digital outreach.

While change can be uncomfortable, it’s often necessary for reaching new people. Ensure changes align with your vision and involve the congregation in the process.

10. Be Patient and Faithful

Growth takes time. Celebrate small wins, like a new family joining or a meaningful worship moment. Remain faithful to God’s calling, and trust Him for the increase. Remember, the goal isn’t just to fill seats but to see lives transformed by the gospel.

Final Thoughts

Growing a small church requires a combination of spiritual focus, relational investment, and intentional strategy. Whether you’re leading worship, teaching, or serving behind the scenes, lean into the unique opportunities of a small church setting. When children’s ministry thrives, relationships are nurtured, and worship and preaching are impactful, families and individuals alike will be drawn to your community. With God’s guidance and your congregation’s commitment, you can see your church flourish in ways you never imagined.

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Why Does God Limit Our Lifespan?

Posted on January 30, 2025 by Mark Cole

In Psalm 90, Moses prays, “Teach us to realize the brevity of life, so that we may grow in wisdom” (Psalm 90:12, NLT). These words, penned thousands of years ago, are still profoundly relevant today. They invite us to reflect on a timeless truth: our days are limited, and that limitation holds purpose. Why does God set boundaries on our lifespan, and what can we learn from it? Let’s explore this question together.

1. A Reminder of Our Mortality

By limiting our lifespan, God reminds us that we are finite. We often live as though time is unlimited, yet Scripture consistently brings us back to reality. As Moses also writes, “You turn people back to dust, saying, ‘Return to dust, you mortals’” (Psalm 90:3). Recognizing our mortality fosters humility. It reminds us that life is not something we control but a gift from God.

Our culture often avoids confronting mortality, preferring to chase youthfulness and distract ourselves from the inevitable. Yet, embracing this truth helps us live with greater intentionality and reverence. When we understand that life is short, we can better focus on what truly matters.

Lesson: Life’s brevity encourages us to rely on God and prioritize eternal values over temporary pursuits.

2. To Foster Wisdom and Purpose

Moses’ prayer directly connects life’s brevity with wisdom: “Teach us to realize the brevity of life, so that we may grow in wisdom” (Psalm 90:12). Knowing our time is limited inspires us to make the most of it. How we spend our days reflects what we value.

When we realize that our lives are like a “mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes” (James 4:14), we begin to see time as a precious resource. This awareness prompts us to:

  • Cultivate meaningful relationships.
  • Serve others with love and humility.
  • Invest in God’s kingdom through worship, discipleship, and outreach.

Lesson: Wisdom comes from living intentionally and aligning our lives with God’s purposes.

3. To Reveal God’s Eternal Nature

In contrast to our finite existence, God is eternal. Moses declares, “From everlasting to everlasting, you are God” (Psalm 90:2). Our limited lifespan highlights His infinite nature and unchanging character. This contrast draws us to worship and trust in Him.

By recognizing that God is eternal, we are reminded that our hope extends beyond this life. For believers, the brevity of life is not a source of despair but an invitation to anchor ourselves in the promise of eternity with Him.

Lesson: Life’s brevity points us to the eternal God and the hope of everlasting life.

4. To Protect Us from Prolonged Suffering

God’s limitation on human lifespan is also an act of mercy. After the fall of Adam and Eve, sin and its consequences entered the world. Genesis 6:3 reveals God’s decision to limit human life: “My Spirit will not contend with humans forever, for they are mortal; their days will be a hundred and twenty years.” This limitation prevents humanity from living indefinitely in a broken, pain-filled world.

For believers, the brevity of life is a reminder that suffering and sin are temporary. Revelation 21:4 assures us of a future where God “will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain.”

Lesson: Life’s brevity assures us that suffering is not eternal, and it points us to the promise of God’s restoration.

5. To Inspire Legacy and Faithfulness

Knowing that our days are numbered inspires us to leave a legacy of faithfulness. What will people remember about us? More importantly, how will our lives reflect God’s glory?

Paul exhorts believers in Ephesians 5:15-16: “Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil.” Time is a gift, and we are called to steward it well. This includes faithfully using our talents, serving others, and living in a way that points people to Jesus.

Lesson: A limited lifespan motivates us to focus on faithfulness and building a legacy that glorifies God.

Closing Thoughts: Living with Eternal Perspective

The brevity of life is not a punishment but a gift—a tool that God uses to teach us humility, wisdom, and purpose. By numbering our days, we learn to:

  • Depend on God.
  • Prioritize eternal values.
  • Live intentionally and with purpose.

Moses’ prayer in Psalm 90 is one we should all echo: “Teach us to realize the brevity of life, so that we may grow in wisdom.” When we embrace this perspective, we are freed from the fear of death and empowered to live each day with joy, purpose, and hope in God’s eternal promises.

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Understanding Jesus’ Words: “The Last Will Be First, and the First Will Be Last”

Posted on January 30, 2025 by Mark Cole

Throughout His ministry, Jesus often turned societal norms upside down, challenging our perceptions of greatness, power, and reward. One of His most profound and puzzling statements is: “So those who are last now will be first then, and those who are first will be last” (Matthew 20:16, NLT). This phrase appears in various contexts in the Gospels, and its implications are far-reaching. Let’s unpack its meaning and explore how it applies to our lives today.

The Context of the Statement

  1. The Parable of the Workers in the Vineyard (Matthew 20:1-16): Jesus tells a story about a landowner who hires workers throughout the day, from early morning to late afternoon. At the end of the day, he pays all the workers the same wage, regardless of how long they worked. This surprises and angers those who worked the longest. The landowner reminds them that he is free to be generous with his resources. Here, Jesus’ statement about the last being first underscores the radical nature of God’s grace. His kingdom does not operate on human systems of merit or fairness. Everyone receives the same reward—eternal life—not because of their effort but because of God’s generosity.
  2. The Rich Young Ruler (Matthew 19:16-30): Just before the parable, a rich young man walks away from Jesus, unwilling to give up his wealth. Jesus comments on how difficult it is for the rich to enter the kingdom of heaven. When Peter asks what the disciples will receive for following Him, Jesus promises rewards but cautions with, “Many who are first will be last, and many who are last will be first” (Matthew 19:30). Here, the statement highlights the inversion of worldly values. Wealth, status, and privilege do not guarantee a place of honor in God’s kingdom. Instead, humility and dependence on God take precedence.

Key Principles Behind the Statement

  1. God’s Grace is Unmerited: The kingdom of God operates on grace, not merit. Just as the workers in the vineyard all received the same wage, salvation is a gift given freely to all who believe, regardless of when or how they come to faith. This truth challenges our human sense of fairness but magnifies God’s generosity.
  2. Humility is Key: Jesus often taught that true greatness comes through humility and service. In Mark 9:35, He says, “If anyone wants to be first, he must be the very last, and the servant of all.” Those who exalt themselves will be humbled, but those who humble themselves will be exalted (Luke 14:11).
  3. God’s Justice is Different from Human Justice: In a world where the “first” are often those with power, wealth, and influence, Jesus’ words remind us that God’s justice prioritizes the meek, the marginalized, and the faithful. The “last” in society—the overlooked and undervalued—will find honor in His kingdom.
  4. The Heart Matters More Than Actions: The workers in the vineyard who labored all day resented the landowner’s generosity. Their complaint reveals a transactional mindset: “I worked harder, so I deserve more.” But God values the heart’s posture over the quantity of work. A person who comes to faith late in life is no less valuable than someone who has followed Christ for decades.

Application for Today

  1. Rejoice in God’s Grace: Avoid comparing your spiritual journey to others. Whether you’ve served God for decades or are just beginning, His grace is sufficient. Celebrate that His kingdom is open to all.
  2. Serve with Humility: Seek opportunities to serve others, especially those society deems “last.” In doing so, you reflect the heart of Christ, who came not to be served but to serve (Mark 10:45).
  3. Value People Over Status: Resist the temptation to measure worth by achievements, possessions, or influence. Instead, honor and uplift those who might be overlooked by the world.
  4. Trust God’s Justice: Life may seem unfair at times, but trust that God’s justice will prevail. The “last” may experience hardship now, but they will be exalted in His kingdom.

Final Thoughts

Jesus’ statement about the last being first and the first being last challenges us to rethink our values and priorities. It reminds us that God’s kingdom is not about earning or deserving but about grace, humility, and service. As we follow Christ, let’s strive to embody these principles, trusting that His justice and mercy will make all things right in the end.

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