What Does The Bible Teach About Sex?

Posted on April 10, 2023 by Mark Cole

The Bible contains various teachings about sex, including guidance on sexual behavior, relationships, and morality. Here are some of the key teachings:

  1. Sex is designed for marriage: The Bible teaches that sex is a gift from God designed to be enjoyed within the context of marriage. In Genesis 2:24, it says, “Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” This passage emphasizes the sacred bond between a husband and wife and highlights the importance of commitment in sexual relationships.
  2. Sexual immorality is a sin: The Bible also teaches that sex outside of marriage is considered immoral and sinful. This includes adultery, fornication, and homosexual behavior. In 1 Corinthians 6:18, it says, “Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.” This passage emphasizes the gravity of sexual sin and the need to avoid it.
  3. Respect and honor within marriage: The Bible teaches that within marriage, husbands and wives should respect and honor each other, including in sexual relationships. In 1 Corinthians 7:3-5, it says, “The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise, the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.” This passage emphasizes the mutual respect and obligation that husbands and wives have toward each other in sexual relationships.
  4. Sexual purity and self-control: The Bible teaches the importance of sexual purity and self-control. In 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, it says, “For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know God.” This passage emphasizes the need for self-control and the pursuit of holiness in all aspects of life, including sexual behavior.

Overall, the Bible teaches that sex is a gift from God designed to be enjoyed within the context of marriage, and that sexual immorality is sinful. It emphasizes the importance of mutual respect, honor, and self-control in sexual relationships, and encourages believers to pursue sexual purity and holiness in all aspects of life.

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Remember The Cross

Posted on April 7, 2023 by Mark Cole

The cross of Jesus is one of the most important symbols of Christianity, and it holds significant meaning for Christians around the world. Here are some of the key aspects of the significance of the cross to Christians:

A symbol of sacrifice: The cross is a powerful symbol of Jesus’ sacrifice for the sins of humanity. Jesus willingly gave His life on the cross to redeem humanity and reconcile us to God.

“And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled himself by becoming obedient to death— even death on a cross!” – Philippians 2:8 (NIV)

A symbol of love: The cross also represents the incredible love that Jesus had for humanity. Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross was the ultimate act of love, demonstrating His willingness to lay down His life for the sake of others.

“Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” – John 15:13 (NIV)

A symbol of forgiveness: The cross represents God’s forgiveness for human sin. Through Jesus’ death and resurrection, God has provided a way for people to be forgiven and reconciled to Him.

“In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God’s grace” – Ephesians 1:7 (NIV)

A symbol of victory: The cross also represents victory over sin and death. Jesus’ death and resurrection broke the power of sin and death, and made a way for people to have eternal life.

“But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.” – 1 Corinthians 15:57 (NIV)

A symbol of identity: For many Christians, the cross is a symbol of their faith and identity. It reminds them of the central beliefs of Christianity and the great love and sacrifice that Jesus made on their behalf.

“May I never boast except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, through which the world has been crucified to me, and I to the world.” – Galatians 6:14 (NIV)

The cross of Jesus is a symbol of hope and salvation for Christians, representing the love, sacrifice, forgiveness, victory, and identity of the Christian faith.

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I Love Writing Songs To God

Posted on April 7, 2023 by Mark Cole

When my son, Josh, was going to a Christian school, one of his assignments was to memorize Bible passages. I remember spending one evening helping him memorize Psalm 139. What a powerful Psalm. After a few hours of working with Josh, he went to bed and then God started ministering to me through those ancient lyrics.

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You have searched me, Lord, and You know me. 
You know when I sit and when I rise; 
You perceive my thoughts from afar.
Where can I go from Your Spirit? 
Where can I flee from Your presence? 
If I go up to the heavens, You are there; 
if I make my bed in the depths, You are there. 
If I rise on the wings of the dawn, 
if I settle on the far side of the sea, 
even there Your hand will guide me, 
Your right hand will hold me fast.

As I read those incredible lyrics, a melody came to me. For the next few hours I wrote my own version of Psalm 139 to the Lord. I remember the tears rolling down my face as the power of David’s words touched my heart. It is astounding that the God who created the heaven’s and the earth knows me. He loves me. His Spirit is always with me… how amazing!

My heart’s desire is to live a life that is pleasing to Him. The Psalmist David said it this way:

Search me, God, and know my heart;
test me and know my anxious thoughts. 
See if there is any offensive way in me, 
and lead me in the way everlasting.

I love writing songs to God…

Psalm 139  (From the CD ‘God Is My Rock)

Oh Lord, You have searched my heart
And You know my thoughts, my ways
When I sit and when I rise
Oh Lord, before I speak
You know my words
Your ways are too marvellous for me.

Where can I go, Oh Lord
From Your Spirit?
Where can I hide
From Your Presence?
If I rise on the wings of the morning dawn
If I settle on the edge of the sea

If I go to the depths of the deepest sea
If I rise to the heavens above
Even there Your hands will hold me close
Even there Your hands will guide me

Mark Cole
© 1997 Mark Cole/GT Music

Question: Have you ever written a song? What inspired you?

Psalm 139: Mark Cole

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Worship Leading Tips

Posted on April 5, 2023 by Mark Cole

There is no one-size-fits-all secret to worship leading in churches as every congregation is different, and the style of worship may vary widely from one church to another. However, here are some general tips that may help you become an effective worship leader:

  1. Connect with God: The most important aspect of worship leading is your relationship with God. Take time to pray, read your Bible, and seek God’s presence before leading worship. This will help you to lead from a place of authenticity and sincerity.
  2. Know your congregation: It’s essential to understand the needs and preferences of your congregation. Take the time to get to know your congregation and their worship style. This will help you to choose appropriate songs and create an atmosphere that fosters worship.
  3. Plan and prepare: Proper planning and preparation are essential to successful worship leading. Choose songs that are appropriate for the occasion, and practice them thoroughly. Have strong, productive rehearsals with your music team. Also, ensure that all necessary equipment is available and functioning properly.
  4. Engage the congregation: Worship is not a performance, but a participatory activity. Encourage your congregation to join in by using strong easy-to-sing songs in congregational friendly keys, providing clear directions and verbal encouragement.
  5. Lead by example: As a worship team, you and your team are role models for the congregation. Lead by example, demonstrating sincerity, humility, reverence and love for God.
  6. Be flexible: No matter how well you plan, things can go wrong during worship. Be flexible and willing to adapt to changes in the service, such as a sermon that runs longer than expected or technical difficulties.

Remember that worship leading is not about you, but about leading others into a meaningful encounter with God. By following these tips, you can help create an environment where your congregation can experience the presence of God in a powerful way.

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What Is The Best Way To Teach Music Students To Play-By-Ear?

Posted on April 4, 2023 by Mark Cole

Teaching students to play by ear can be a valuable skill for any musician. Here are some tips that can help music teachers teach their students to play by ear:

  1. Emphasize listening skills: Encourage students to listen carefully to the music they are trying to learn, paying attention to the melody, rhythm, and harmony. Provide opportunities for them to listen to recordings of the music they are learning.
  2. Start simple: Begin by teaching simple melodies or chord progressions that are easy to hear and recognize. Encourage students to play along with recordings or to sing the melody before attempting to play it on their instrument.
  3. Use call-and-response exercises: Play a short melody or chord progression and have the student repeat it back to you. Gradually increase the complexity of the exercises as the student improves.
  4. Provide guidance: Help students identify the key and the chord progression of the music they are learning. This can help them figure out the melody by ear.
  5. Use improvisation: Encourage students to experiment with improvisation, using the melody or chord progression as a starting point. This can help them develop their ear and their ability to play by ear.
  6. Be patient: Learning to play by ear takes time and practice. Encourage students to keep practicing and experimenting with different approaches until they find what works best for them.

Overall, teaching students to play by ear requires a combination of listening skills, guidance, and practice. With patience and persistence, students can develop their ability to play by ear and become more confident and creative musicians.

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What Is The Best Way To Read The Bible?

Posted on April 3, 2023 by Mark Cole

The best way to read the Bible depends on your goals and personal preferences. Here are some general tips that can help you get the most out of your Bible reading:

  1. Start with prayer: Begin your Bible reading with prayer, asking God to help you understand and apply what you read.
  2. Choose a translation: There are many different translations of the Bible available, each with its own strengths and weaknesses. Choose a translation that is easy for you to understand and fits your reading style. My personal favorite is the New Living Translation (NLT). You can read it online at BibleGateway.com
  3. Read with purpose: Decide what you want to accomplish through your Bible reading, whether it’s gaining a deeper understanding of a particular book or passage, learning about a specific theme, or simply spending time in meditation and reflection.
  4. Take notes: Jot down any questions, insights, or reflections that come to mind as you read. This can help you remember what you’ve read and make connections between different parts of the Bible.
  5. Read regularly: Consistency is key when it comes to Bible reading. Aim to read a little bit each day, whether it’s a single verse, a chapter, or more.
  6. Use study tools: Commentaries, concordances, and other study tools can help you gain a deeper understanding of the Bible. Use these resources to help answer questions and provide context for what you’re reading.
  7. Apply what you’ve learned: Once you’ve read and studied the Bible, look for ways to apply what you’ve learned in your daily life. This might involve prayer, meditation, or specific actions that align with what you’ve read.

Remember, reading the Bible is a personal and spiritual journey, and there is no one “right” way to approach it. The most important thing is to approach your reading with an open heart and a desire to learn and grow in your faith.

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What Is The Best Way To Get New Music Students?

Posted on April 3, 2023 by Mark Cole

There are several effective ways to attract new music students for your studio. Here are a few suggestions:

  1. Build a professional website: Create a website that showcases your experience, qualifications, and teaching philosophy. Include information about your services, rates, and contact information.
  2. Utilize social media: Use social media platforms like Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter to promote your studio and share updates about your teaching. Consider running targeted ads to reach potential students in your area on Facebook and Kijiji.
  3. Offer a free trial lesson: Offer a free trial lesson to prospective students. This gives them an opportunity to experience your teaching style and determine if your studio is a good fit for them.
  4. Network with other music professionals: Connect with other music professionals in your area, such as music store owners, school music teachers, and local musicians. They may refer students to you or recommend your studio to their own students.
  5. Attend local music events: Attend local music events, such as concerts and recitals, and distribute flyers or business cards to attendees. This is a great way to connect with potential students who are already interested in music.
  6. Partner with community organizations: Partner with community organizations, such as youth groups, churches or community centers, to offer music classes or workshops. This can help you reach a wider audience and establish your reputation in the community.

Remember, building a successful music studio takes time and effort. Be patient, persistent, and proactive in promoting your studio and reaching out to potential students.

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How Do I Improve My Pickleball Playing?

Posted on April 3, 2023 by Mark Cole

Here are some tips to improve your pickleball playing:

  1. Practice, practice, practice: The more you play, the more you will improve. Try to play at least a few times a week, if possible.
  2. Focus on your footwork: Footwork is crucial in pickleball. Practice moving quickly and efficiently around the court, making small steps and keeping your weight on the balls of your feet.
  3. Improve your serve: Work on developing a consistent, deep and accurate serve that puts pressure on your opponents.
  4. Develop your third shot: The third shot is a crucial shot in pickleball, and developing a strong third shot can help you win points and games. Practice hitting drop shots, lobs, and drives to develop a variety of third-shot options.
  5. Work on your volleys: Volleys are an important part of pickleball. Practice hitting volleys with a soft touch and good control.
  6. Improve your dinking: Dinking is a finesse shot that can be used to set up a winning shot. Practice hitting soft, controlled shots over the net that force your opponents to move and make mistakes.
  7. Play with and against better players: Playing with and against more skilled players can help you improve your own game. Watch and learn from their techniques and strategies, and try to incorporate them into your own game.
  8. Watch videos and tutorials: There are many great instructional videos and tutorials available online that can help you improve your technique and strategy.
  9. Stay positive and have fun: Pickleball is a fun and social sport, and it’s important to enjoy the game and stay positive, even when things aren’t going your way. Keep a positive attitude and remember to have fun!
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What Is The Best Teaching Plan For New Acoustic Guitar Students?

Posted on April 3, 2023 by Mark Cole

The best teaching plan for new acoustic guitar students will depend on their age, skill level, and learning style. However, here is a general framework that can be adapted to suit different students:

  1. Introduction: Start by introducing the parts of the guitar, how to hold it, and basic posture.
  2. Basic chords: Teach the basic chords such as C, D, G, A, E, Em, Am and Bm. Have students practice changing between these chords, as this is a fundamental skill for playing guitar.
  3. Strumming: Teach basic strumming patterns and have students practice them with the chords they have learned.
  4. Simple songs: Choose simple songs that use the chords and strumming patterns the student has learned. This will help them apply what they have learned in a practical way.
  5. Fingerpicking: Introduce basic fingerpicking patterns and have students practice them with simple melodies or chords.
  6. Music theory: Teach basic music theory concepts such as scales, keys, and intervals. This will help students understand the relationship between chords and melodies.
  7. More advanced chords and techniques: Introduce more advanced chords and techniques such as barre chords, hammer-ons, pull-offs, and slides.
  8. Practice routines: Help students develop good practice routines that include warm-up exercises, scales, chord changes, and songs.
  9. Performance skills: Teach students how to perform in front of an audience, including how to deal with nerves, stage presence, and microphone technique.

Remember, the most important thing is to make the lessons fun and engaging for the student. Encourage them to practice regularly, and provide positive feedback and encouragement along the way.

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What Is The Best Way To Lose Weight?

Posted on April 3, 2023 by Mark Cole

There are many different approaches to weight loss, but the best way to lose weight is through a combination of healthy eating habits and regular exercise. Here are some tips for losing weight in a healthy and sustainable way:

  1. Create a calorie deficit: To lose weight, you need to burn more calories than you consume. This can be achieved by reducing your calorie intake and increasing your physical activity.
  2. Eat a healthy and balanced diet: Focus on eating whole, nutrient-dense foods such as fruits, vegetables, lean protein, and healthy fats. Avoid processed and high-calorie foods.
  3. Practice portion control: Eating smaller portions can help you reduce your calorie intake and manage your weight. Use smaller plates, measure your portions, and avoid eating until you feel overly full.
  4. Stay hydrated: Drinking plenty of water can help you feel full and reduce your calorie intake. Aim for at least eight glasses of water a day.
  5. Exercise regularly: Regular exercise can help you burn calories and build muscle, which can increase your metabolism and help you maintain weight loss. Aim for at least 150 minutes of moderate-intensity exercise or 75 minutes of vigorous-intensity exercise per week.
  6. Get enough sleep: Lack of sleep can disrupt your hormones and increase your appetite, making it harder to lose weight. Aim for at least seven hours of sleep per night.

Remember, weight loss is a gradual process that requires patience, consistency, and lifestyle changes. It’s important to focus on healthy habits rather than quick fixes, and to seek support from friends, family, or a healthcare professional if needed.

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