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Don’t Let Anger Drive

Posted on May 21, 2026 by Mark Cole

“Don’t sin by letting anger control you. Think about it overnight and remain silent.” – Psalm 4:4 (NLT) Anger is a powerful emotion. Sometimes it rises because of injustice, betrayal, frustration, hurt, exhaustion, or disappointment. The Bible does not say … Continue reading →

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Worship Leader Self-Assessment Questionnaire

Posted on May 9, 2026 by Mark Cole

This self-assessment is designed to help worship leaders honestly evaluate their strengths, weaknesses, and growth areas. The goal is not perfection, but growth. Strong worship leaders continually develop spiritually, musically, relationally, and personally. Rate yourself honestly using the following scale: … Continue reading →

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The Cost of Being Unfaithful

Posted on May 6, 2026 by Mark Cole

Adultery is often presented as a private choice—something hidden, contained, even justified in moments of weakness or dissatisfaction. But Scripture and real life tell a very different story. Being unfaithful is never isolated. It carries a cost—deep, wide, and often … Continue reading →

Posted in Bible, Family, God, Leadership, obedience, Wisdom | Tagged adultery, anxiety, breaks trust, close to God, come to light, commitment, cost, credibility, divided life, exposed, fellowship with God, forgiveness, guard your heart, hurt, insecurity, integrity, loss of peace, marriage, relationship, restoration, sin, spouse, suspicion, Trust, unfaithful, weakness, wound | Leave a comment

The Harvest

Posted on April 9, 2026 by Mark Cole

Jesus once made a powerful and sobering statement: “The harvest is great, but the workers are few.” Those words are just as true today as when He first spoke them. All around us, there is a harvest—people searching for hope, … Continue reading →

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Speaking To God Face To Face

Posted on February 20, 2026 by Mark Cole

One of the most astonishing lines in the Bible is found in Exodus 33:11: “The Lord would speak to Moses face to face, as one speaks to a friend.” That verse stops me every time. The Creator of the universe … Continue reading →

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How to Have Confidence Before God

Posted on December 4, 2025 by Mark Cole

A Study of 1 John 3 Most believers struggle at some point with doubt, insecurity, or a sense of spiritual inadequacy. We know the gospel, we believe God loves us, yet our hearts can still accuse us. That’s why 1 … Continue reading →

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Overcoming a Critical Spirit: Learning to Speak Life

Posted on August 5, 2025 by Mark Cole

“Don’t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them.” — Ephesians 4:29 (NLT) My uncle passed away recently at the age of … Continue reading →

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How to Deal with a Critical Family Member

Posted on July 26, 2025 by Mark Cole

Every family has its share of dynamics—some joyful, some challenging. One of the most difficult challenges is navigating a relationship with a family member who has a critical spirit. Whether it’s during a holiday gathering, a family vacation, or just … Continue reading →

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How to Win the Inner Battles

Posted on July 18, 2025 by Mark Cole

Every one of us fights private battles—internal struggles that few people see but all of us feel. Paul describes this daily war in Galatians 5 as a conflict between our sinful nature and the Holy Spirit: “The sinful nature wants … Continue reading →

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Matt Redman On The Importance Of Honest Feedback

Posted on June 17, 2015 by Mark Cole

from WeAreWorship.com Almost three decades have passed since Matt started to lead worship at his local church. It didn’t take him long to discover how steep the learning curve could get… WAW: What were the things that helped you as … Continue reading →

Posted in Church, Leadership, Music, Wisdom, Worship | Tagged correction, encourage, feedback, honest, insecurity, mentors, next generation, original twist, song, universal theme | Leave a comment

Tag Archives: insecurity

Don’t Let Anger Drive

Worship Leader Self-Assessment Questionnaire

The Cost of Being Unfaithful

The Harvest

Speaking To God Face To Face

How to Have Confidence Before God

Overcoming a Critical Spirit: Learning to Speak Life

How to Deal with a Critical Family Member

How to Win the Inner Battles

Matt Redman On The Importance Of Honest Feedback

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