What Makes God Smile?

If we had to reduce it to one clear answer, it would be this:

A person who truly loves Him.

Not casually. Not occasionally. But with their whole heart, soul, and mind.

Jesus said this is the greatest commandment—the foundation of everything else. So if we want to know what makes God smile, we start here.

1. Loving God With All Your Heart, Soul, and Mind

God is not primarily looking for performance—He’s looking for love.

  • Heart – affection, passion, desire
  • Soul – your inner life, your devotion
  • Mind – your thoughts, attention, and focus

This kind of love means:

  • You think about Him
  • You want to be with Him
  • You care about what He cares about

It’s not forced. It’s cultivated.

And when God sees someone choosing to love Him fully—not perfectly, but genuinely—that brings Him deep joy.


2. Faith That Flows From Love

Faith isn’t just believing facts about God—it’s trusting Someone you love.

When you love God, you naturally:

  • Trust His promises
  • Lean on Him in difficulty
  • Believe He is good

Faith without love can become mechanical.
But faith rooted in love? That moves the heart of God.


3. Obedience That Comes From Relationship

Jesus made this connection crystal clear:

“If you love Me, keep My commandments.”

Obedience is no longer about duty—it becomes a response.

You obey not to earn love, but because you already love Him.

That changes everything:

  • You want to please Him
  • You care about His ways
  • You grieve when you fall short

That kind of obedience brings a smile to God’s face.


4. Wanting to Be With Him

Love always moves toward presence.

When you love God:

  • You spend time with Him
  • You talk to Him
  • You listen

Not out of obligation—but desire.

A rushed, distracted life doesn’t reflect love well. But when someone slows down to seek God, it says something powerful:

“Being with You matters to me.”

That never goes unnoticed.


5. Loving What He Loves—People

If you truly love God, it will show in how you treat others.

  • You forgive more quickly
  • You show compassion
  • You serve without needing recognition

Why? Because His heart becomes your heart.

You can’t claim deep love for God while ignoring people made in His image. But when love for others flows naturally from your love for Him—that pleases God deeply.


6. A Heart That Keeps Coming Back

Even those who love God stumble.

But here’s what matters: they come back.

  • They repent
  • They humble themselves
  • They return to Him again and again

That persistence in relationship—that refusal to walk away—is precious to God.


Final Thought

What makes God smile?

Not perfection.
Not activity.
Not even ministry success.

Love.

A real, growing, wholehearted love for Him.

Everything else—faith, obedience, worship, fruitfulness—flows out of that one reality.

So the question isn’t just:
“What am I doing for God?”

It’s this:
“Do I truly love Him—with all my heart, soul, and mind?”

That’s where it begins.
And that’s what makes God smile most.

About Mark Cole

Jesus follower, Husband, Grandfather, Worship Leader, Writer, Pastor, Teacher, Founding Arranger for Praisecharts.com, pickleball player, blogger & outdoor enthusiast.. (biking, hiking, skiing). Twitter: @MarkMCole Facebook: mmcole
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